i love oral but cant get it off my hubby he dosent like giving it but he loves to get it off me please help
2006-10-02 08:57:36 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
It seems odd, that. After all, if he likes the sight, feel and smell of your vagina, I would have thought he'd like the taste too. Most men a far as I can tell, crave all of these. Once tried and they're hooked. Something to do with pheremones, I believe.
I think you'll have to supply more details so that we can analyse the situation better and come up with an answer, other than a complete guess.
Meanwhile, try getting him to bath you , or join you in the shower. That way he'll have no doubt that that part of you is squeaky clean and free of unwanted odours (excuse me be so personal), as something like that could have put him off in the past, not necessarily with you. These days too, why not try what is commonly known as a Brazilian or better still a Hollywood - very fashionable these days, to judge by stories on this website and elsewhere. One look at you soft and smoothness might entice him to go down. It'd work for me.
Otherwise it's a real puzzle. I understand that some people just don't like the idea at all, but if he likes to receive, he should also be willing to give. All I can say is, it's a tribute to how much you love him if you have respect for his preferences, and shows a selfless attitude on your part which is very admirable. We don't always get what we want in life, do we and if we took everything to the "I won't if you won't" level, I think our humanity would have lost something precious.
Please keep us posted. By now I'm sure your story will have a host of eager followers.
2006-10-02 09:27:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What a selfish man... you should NOT give him oral if he will not return the favor. And hold out, do not give in and give him oral just because he is whining about how bad he wants it. Do NOT give him any until he does it to you. Not just for 2 seconds, but until you are satisfied. And if he has that big of a problem with it that he just won't do it, then make him go without it too and get a taste of his own medicine. He will continue to only worry about his own satisfaction and not yours if you continue to please him without him doing anything in return.
2006-10-02 09:59:52 · answer #2 · answered by britt7248 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Somethings a bot wrong here. No disrespects to your boyfriend but you seriously need to have a word with him about this because it just isnt fair!!
As far as I am concerned it is give and take... not one or the other. You should have a quiet discussion about and tell him you have needs also. If he doesnt coorporate, then the answer is simple... dont do him any favours until he realises it takes two to tango.
I dont think I can help you anymore.... you need to talk to him about it. Tell him to stop being so narrow-minded!!!
All the best!!
2006-10-02 23:17:03 · answer #3 · answered by The Avenger 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Hun, Iv had this prob with my bf. It always use to be me doing things not him. What solved my prob is i stopped doing what he liked. So that he knew he would have to give to receive if you get what I'm saying. Too can play at the same game.
If this doesn't work just sit down and tell him straight. and work something out so that you are both happy.
2006-10-02 22:26:50 · answer #4 · answered by Rachel B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like giving and receiving but the wife don't like giving. I know how you feel !!!!!!!!! Your hubby is being very selfish
2006-10-02 09:18:45 · answer #5 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well tell him its not going to be one sided if you don't give my pu*sy oral your tool is not getting oral
2006-10-03 01:45:31 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
never met a man who does not like giving it. If he really loves you, he should please you the way you like to be pleased. You do it for him, so it's only fair.
2006-10-02 09:09:07 · answer #7 · answered by venus11224 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl just let your let your man now that he as got to move with the flow baby if he is not doing it then you are going to fin d someone who will.
2006-10-02 11:29:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
THATS DISGUSITNG, HAVE YOU CONNECTED THE DOTS THAT WHAT YOU ARE ORALLY PUTTING IN YOUR MOUTH COULD HAVE DISEASE AND PEE COMES OUT OF GO WASH YOUR MOUTH OUT WITH SOAP.
2006-10-02 11:26:20 · answer #9 · answered by outdoor_girl93 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give and take!
If he won't give it to you, then don't give it to him!
Simple really. Why should he enjoy it if you can't?
Then see if he changes his mind!
If not his loss not yours!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
He can't have what you can't have, it is only fair to give back what you receive!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-10-03 00:47:37 · answer #10 · answered by Aitch 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋