okay i was friends with this girl I really cared about her alot. but a few months ago I just flipped on her in an e-Mail out of frustration. Basically I just referenced a bunch of stuff that was stupid childish stuff. Four months later I realize I was being a lunatic. So recently I tried to explain myself to her. She refuses to answer my calls and I sent her an e-mail. Being that we have known each other for awhile, as friends is it normal to send her flowers to let her now I'm sorry or am I just nutz? I did wait three or four months to apologize. COuld she really be that mad? WE were pretty good friends will she think I'm more or a freak
2006-10-02 08:53:00 · 3 answers · asked by urlikeaminal 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
she's probably pissed off and holds a grudge against ya. =T that sucks, but it happens. if i were u, and i were truly sorry, i would send flowers (www.proflowers.com is a great site), and say in the card that
"i just wanna apologize, and even if you don't want to be friends anymore i understand, i just don't want u to have a negative view of me, since i have changed and realized my mistake. thanks, and take care always"
something like that. and don't expect ANYTHING back... she might not care if u are sorry. but if she does, she'll let u know. :) good luck
2006-10-02 08:57:49 · answer #1 · answered by sasmallworld 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All of us i'm sure have been through it. I have and i'm still trying to figure out what i'm going to do. I'm on your friends end. If she won't return your calls or your email then yes send her flowers and write an apology on the card and tell her that you have thought about what you have done and your sorry for the way you were acting. You hope that she can forgive you but if not you just wanted to let her know how truely sorry you are and that she will always have a special place in your heart and for her to take care. Maybe after that she will call or email you. I hope that everything works out for you. Next time maybe try writing in a journal or if something she is doing is bothering you let her know immediately and hopefully nothing like this will happen again. Good luck and if you have anymore questions feel free to email me.
2006-10-02 16:35:18 · answer #2 · answered by Heather A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she may have taken your frustration jibber personally... it may have made her feel like you were taking your frustrations out on her & that would undoubtedly make her furious.
You probably freaked her out, may have even scared her terribly, so she's making sure to avoid another such outburst from you.
2006-10-02 16:04:23 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋