my hubby goes for maybe 3 minutes at the most! no matter how many times per week , we do it. just bam! an it is over!!!! please suggest what i can do , what we can do? makes sex dull and boring! HELP?
2006-10-02 08:51:34 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Poor Lucy , try ice! that should get his mind off of you know.... that is what I do!
2006-10-02 09:21:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
At about 2 and a half min. have him stop and pull out. Make love to you with his hands or mouth until he has lost the urge completely.
When he is ready he can get back in for other 2 and a half and do it all over again. If while he makes love to you, you orgasm, try to see how many times you can do that before he finally goes for the 3 min.
Timing is everything but you know what I am saying.
Now if after he pulls out and starts playing with you the excitement is too much and he goes.....well the next time have him just stop for awhile until he thinks he is ready.
What he has is premature ejaculation. Or at least a form of it.
If you don't change your routine your interest in sex will decline.
Make him give you a good time before he does.
2006-10-02 17:42:19 · answer #2 · answered by John B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look, all what can i say is that cuming fast is a problem that face many mens, lmost it is not phsyical thing but it somehow emotional, ur hubby must do a lot of masturbation when he was singel, the best thing in that is 1- not be nervous while he make, 2- not let him feel that he do a homwork, 3-u must when u make it make it so lonley not fear that anyone should come suddenly, as that make men *** fast, 4- try to enlrage the play and kissing time, 5- when he feel he wanna *** before it a while let him out of u and just kissing till he feel he can make it agin without ***, and by this time to time u shall find how much it could help u just the golden key is relax and enjoy not tention, ok
2006-10-03 15:24:15 · answer #3 · answered by chemistman 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever heard the phrase "body chemistry", it is just that. Women's natural lube is made up of acid, some stronger than others, some men absorb this acid differently. In other words, it sounds like you two's body chemistry is not matching up. Don't leave him for it, it's not his fault or yours. Find other ways for "him" to pleasure you to make it more enjoyable for you.
2006-10-02 16:09:26 · answer #4 · answered by lifescircle 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
RELAX RELAX RELAX, as a married man i have found that often my wife will tense up and not be totally relaxed with her muscle (esp. thighs) during sex. Make sure that the both of you are relaxed, try listening to your favorite music and make sure its not in the bed right before bed.
2006-10-02 16:26:38 · answer #5 · answered by c1cq 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a topical anesthetic, and put it on his male member, as part of foreplay. It will keep him from feeling the sensations for a longer time, and then he won't climax as quickly.
2006-10-02 15:59:08 · answer #6 · answered by Beau R 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him a pull first - then get him ready again and then he should last longer - as he won't be so excited - or you could give up and have a cup of tea !
2006-10-02 16:18:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
THere is a cream from FYP, I forget what it's called but it's supposed to make him last. Never used it but heard it works
2006-10-02 16:06:44 · answer #8 · answered by sasha 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have him think about other things besides what he is doing. If he takes longer the second and third time then have him masterbate or do it more
2006-10-02 15:56:41 · answer #9 · answered by fortyninertu 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2014-07-24 17:09:38 · answer #10 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might have him try taking, with a Dr. prescription ofcourse) a mild anti-depresant. Lexapro is one I can recomend I have to take it and it stops the "pre-mature ejaculation" problem without killing your sex drive....works for me
2006-10-02 17:38:58 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋