my boyfriend who was my high school sweetheart got married last year and seperated the girl on july of this year. Then we started talking again so we are now together. He wants to divorce the girl. How long can this process take? and will we be able to get married in a church...
2006-10-02 08:36:23 · 8 answers · asked by phoenixchickNY 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
we were engage before he married her. The marriage wasnt something he wanted, but he didnt want to go agaisnt his beliefs either. I know that its a tough one. But we are much in love. We dont plan to get married soon but in the future if everything goes well.
2006-10-02 08:54:32 · update #1
Divorce times vary depending on what the complications are. if its a straightforward one then it takes about 3 to 4 months if there are issues well, it can go on and on and on. married in a church, that also depends,but usually yes you can,
2006-10-02 08:38:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it can be relatively short or a long process of divorce....when the papers are finalized, You will be able to marry in a church.
Think about this though....he married last year, and he separated this July....now he's with you and wants to marry?? Man that's fast....I would take this easy cuz you never know, he could pull the same thing on you too...
good luck
2006-10-02 15:40:10 · answer #2 · answered by asiantomato84 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If Catholic then you will not be able to get married in a church... you will need it annulled... a divorce can be quite quick... however why is he not divorced... before beginning a relationship back with you.... and why are you talking about marriage to him... 3 months of his being separated?
2006-10-02 15:43:05 · answer #3 · answered by Tricia P 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I too met my hubby in 10th grade in highschool but thankfully we r still together and its been 22 years now! Divorce can go VERY fast as long as she doesnt drag it out trying to take him for everything! If she wants it too than it can be done and over in 2 months or less! As long as u r not catholic u should be able to get married wherever your little heart desires! Good luck and Congradulations! Hanf on to him this time friend! lol
2006-10-02 15:42:20 · answer #4 · answered by cstinkerbell6969 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In some states it can take a year and six months, some chirches have bylaws that if you were married once you can't get married in a church but that depends on the church
2006-10-02 15:40:01 · answer #5 · answered by the sweetest 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm. it really depends.. it could take 3 years or it could take 2 months.. mine only took 2 months but that was b/c we agreed on everything and it just went fast .. we agreed it would b best for us to get divorced.. but on the other had it took my new husband 3 years to get divorced b/c they fought about everything and she wanted everything.. and yes u can get married in a church we did..
GOOD LUCK WITH IT ALL
2006-10-02 15:50:28 · answer #6 · answered by lilmissthang025 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he got married in a church, he can only get remarried there with an annulment (which I understand are hard to get).
2006-10-02 15:40:39 · answer #7 · answered by randyken 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope everything turns out fine. Your man is lucky to have your feet all to himself!
2006-10-02 16:19:08 · answer #8 · answered by Submit to her Feet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋