2006-10-02 08:29:05 · 31 answers · asked by bostonredsoxgurl124 1 in News & Events ➔ Other - News & Events
unless he make your mother happy and proud of herself AGAIN,there's no reason to hate your mom boyfriend.
2006-10-02 08:34:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I went through the same thing when I was in high school,I came back from school and my mom's boyfriend was in the couch with her.I was really mad and even kicked him out of the house.I hated him to the point where I'd never wanna be home becuz of him but I realized through time that my mom deserves to be happy,My REAL dad is locked up ok.If you are a teenager,just remember that not forever you will live with your mom and family,you too will have your own family soon.Stay positive and just try to get along with him,He can never be your dad,and no one can EVER force you to LIKE someone,but try just to be positive to yourself and towards others.DON'T KILL him because the way you speak of him,he is not worth doing life in prison ok.
2006-10-02 15:38:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you taken the time to get to know this person? Have you given them the chance to know you? It's obvious that your mother is lonely, and is looking for companionship. I don't know how old you are, but children are naturally threatened by a new person coming in. Give him a chance. Talk to your mother about your feelings; between the two of you, I'm sure you can figure out why you do not get along with this person, and if there is a way to make things easier. Good luck.
2006-10-02 15:41:38 · answer #3 · answered by theanswerman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First ignore the ridiculous, insensitive responses from single minded individual who think every thing is a game. If you will take your mother aside and talk to her about it the issue could be resolved but understand that you cannot dictate who your mother dates because she is an adult. If this man makes you uncomfortable you need to tell her that too and she could see him outside of the home. Just because she wants to be around him doesn't mean you have to be.
2006-10-02 15:40:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depending on your relationship with your mother, you can openly discuss your feelings and thoughts with her and have substantial reasoning as to why you don't like him. I wouldn't say "I don't like him" say, "Ma, I really don't care for him because: 1) 2) 3)
When you are able to state facts, parents are more accepting of your feelings and thoughts; however, know that this doesn't mean its going to change things between him and your mom. at least you were able to freely express yourself and let your mom know. When you go to talk to her make sure he is not around and not on his way over.
2006-10-02 15:32:49 · answer #5 · answered by Ladijaye 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all your mom has a life she needs to live for herself. She has done the best she could in order to raise you properly. It is her life to be with this boyfriend, and not yours. Your mom loves you and the boyfriend will not replace you, but, you need to look at it from her perspective and her happiness. Try not to be one sided and look at it from your perspective. She deserves happiness and as long as she loves him and wants to be with him, keep your opinions to yourself. What you think will not matter anyways.
2006-10-02 15:34:48 · answer #6 · answered by navymilitarybrat76 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your mom. I have two kids and a boyfriend that they told me they did not like. My kids voiced their concerns about my boyfriend and we discussed their concerns. As it turns out it was not him that they disliked but the fact that the time I spend with him takes away from time I used to be available for them.
2006-10-02 15:34:54 · answer #7 · answered by datingyoungincali 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You should talk to your mom, but be prepared to explain exactly what you don't like about him. Be specific with her. That is really all you can do about the situation, as long as he is not mistreating you in anyway.
2006-10-02 16:26:52 · answer #8 · answered by heaven o 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell your mom that you really don't like him because if she loves you enough she will put u first i know that's what my mom did for me she put me first because she really liked this guy but she went to me first before anything happened trust me she will understand just talk to her about it and maybe give the guy a chance
hope my advice helps
2006-10-02 15:33:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I had this one BF when my daughter was 8 years old that she hated on sight. Wouldn't give him a chance at all. When he came around she would sit there and repeat over and over again to him "Get out of my house. I don't want you here. Get out of my house and leave my mother alone." I couldn't get her to stop and he couldn't stand it, so my daughter won!
2006-10-02 15:33:40 · answer #10 · answered by curious 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not your choice.
If he is doing something really bad to you tell your mom.
If you just don't like him get over it.
You are only making things worse.
Have you tried to get along with him.
Tell your mom what he is doing that you don't like, be specific.
2006-10-02 15:37:33 · answer #11 · answered by HEATHER 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋