Just got recently married and I use to go out with a close friend of mine every weekend her and I use to go clubbing every weekend. However when I meet my husband, I stopped go out with and obviosuly go out with him and once in awhile we would go. Her friend which is dating my husband friend also have been insisting for us to double date both. A week ago they both called to invite to go clubbing alone without my husband and I told them that I had another comprise. This weekend my husband and I went to the bar where we met and the bartender which also knows us was very sarcastic and knew all the details, cause we just got married very recent and she said that my friend hads told her everything. Other people have mentioned that she has been saying that parents are very strict etc., Why are they acting like this?? They seem mad ?
My husband told me that my friend 's friend had a crush on him but that he never had anything with her and that I could even ask her. Need some advice..
Thanks
2006-10-02 08:25:40 · 11 answers · asked by cookielove1430 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Maybe your friend is jealous by the fact that you have moved on to better and bigger things in your life. She is supposed to understand that during this "Honeymoon" stage, you are supposed to be getting to know your husband and enjoying the newness of your marriage while it is present. I think you should talk to her and try to find out what is up w/ her. Don't stoop to her level and tell her business as well, but just remain the adult in the situation. And now that you are married, it shouldn't be her business to know every little detail in your personal life. Other people can feed off of that especially if they are secretly jealous of your relationship that you have developed w/ your husband. Good luck in the future/.
2006-10-02 08:30:02 · answer #1 · answered by i have a taste for waffles 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't open any can of worms
so what my hus is a great looking guy you can not imagine how many women have crush on him as long that no one act on it I am find with it
tell you friend that because your husband and you are trying to get to know each other better it is hard to go hand out with them as often as they and you might wish
but once in a while you should invite thme over to your home for a girl night
2006-10-02 08:33:13 · answer #2 · answered by waiting for baby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I follow you correctly....it sounds like your friend is having difficulties adjusting to the fact that you're married. You must put your husband and your marriage first. Try to include you friend in your activities, and get together as a group. But friends have to realize that you have someone else in your life now. You may end up getting/needing new friends.
2006-10-02 08:28:56 · answer #3 · answered by sassybree1979 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like your friends are trying to start some trouble, I would tell the bartender to mind his own business and I would also confront my friend about what she has been saying. A true friedn would understand that when married the spouse(s) should always come first.
2006-10-02 08:33:11 · answer #4 · answered by snoop_dougie_doug04 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is pretty common. You get married, your single friends are jealous (and bored) since you cant spend as much time with them. They dont want to think that your hubby is more important to you than them. How you deal with it? Confront them about it, if it turns into a big to do, then forget about them. Your husband is now more important and they need to realize that.
2006-10-02 08:30:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you understand... that is truly unhappy! Ever evaluate going out and making your individual friends?? I recommend who places a lot attempt into transforming into someones pal. i have not any innovations because I truly have not in any respect been in this concern and that i doubt I ever will be.
2016-12-04 03:34:33 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uhhh, Yea. Sure...
You obviously didn't pay attention in English class did you?
2006-10-02 08:33:57 · answer #7 · answered by BORED AT WORK 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
This really does not make sense...I can't even tell what your problem is. You might want to re-word it to make more sense.
2006-10-02 08:28:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should really spend less time in bars and far more time investing in your own educaton. I do hope you do not vote or have children..................
2006-10-02 08:32:59 · answer #9 · answered by onlineseeker 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Your question doesn't make any sense at all.
2006-10-02 08:37:03 · answer #10 · answered by Shae 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋