i had sex and i did't tell my mom and i have t ogo to se th ob/gyn and i dont want my mom to find out and i dont know if a can say 'i used a tampon" and be belived
2006-10-02 08:16:04 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Women's Health
Everyone is different and yes, a tampon can break the hymen. Many things other than sex can cause that to happen.
Most doctors will only ask, in private, if you are sexually active. They should not disclose anything to anyone unless you approve of that release. Its called the Privacy Act of 1974.
Unless you are a very young person, I don't think you have to have Mom go into the exam room with you.
2006-10-02 08:27:57 · answer #1 · answered by bigmikejones 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A tampon may have broken your hymen, or you might not even have had one, but your ob-gyn is definitely the person who needs to know if you are sexually active - otherwise they can't do their job properly. They can't tell your parents if you have been having sex, even if you are underage. There is this thing called confidentiality. You can get your mother to leave the room while you discuss this.
2006-10-02 10:43:57 · answer #2 · answered by Seraphim 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If there became into no blood, then no. actual maximum females destroy their hymen with motorbike using or horseback using. Or it ought to additionally be in part open. often the 1st time a tampon is used it feels undesirable, exceedingly once you're somewhat dry interior or you probably did not get it settled each of ways in. you need to artwork with the amazing perspective too. stick to the guidelines on the educational. It helps to place one foot up on the bathroom seat to get the attitude appropriate.
2016-12-15 18:29:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The gynecologist will know you are not virginal, but due to changes in the law, the doctor can say nothing to your mother, or anyone, without your written consent. Relax and be honest with the doctor, he/she can help you alot if they know what to look for.
2006-10-02 08:19:54 · answer #4 · answered by essentiallysolo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think there is any way of a doctor knowing that you have had sex, unless you tell him.
2006-10-02 08:19:00 · answer #5 · answered by Carrie! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your doctor is not supposed to divulge this information without your consent !
and no tampons do not pop cherry's.
2006-10-02 08:19:22 · answer #6 · answered by debi_0712 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't think your gynecologist will tell your mom you're not a virgin if you don't want him/her to.
2006-10-02 08:19:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no. that can not break your hymen
2006-10-02 08:19:42 · answer #8 · answered by Aubrey's mommy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋