2006-10-02 08:06:45 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It could be spam. Don't jump to conclusions based solely on this. Are there any other signs he's cheating? Has something else happened to make you think that? If so, perhaps you're right. But if all you have are incoming emails in his email box, then you might also consider the possibility that it's spam. (I get tons of viagra-type spams in my email, but it doesn't mean I have a penis!)
2006-10-02 08:08:39 · answer #1 · answered by I ♥ AUG 6 · 8⤊ 1⤋
I have "Looking for singles" spam coming to my e-mail all the time, I just delete these. He *may* be signed up at these sites, who knows - but you'd have to have more solid evidence than simply the e-mails. Why are you checking his e-mail, anyway? Sounds like you already have a reason to mis-trust him; the gut feeling is often right.
2006-10-02 08:11:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Click on one of the mailers and scroll to the bottom. if there is an un-subscribe directive at the bottom it is "possible" that he simply visited a site (or clicked on it mistakenly) and is getting automatic e-mails.
Visiting a site doesn't mean that he is 'looking' though. Don't jump to conclusions, just check it out and if you still feel uncertain, talk to your hubby about it in a calm and non-confrontational manner.
Sometimes guys click on things thinking they can get insight into their wives or find out what their wives really want, because they are afraid to ask or bring it up. You know your man, so follow your heart...just make sure you don't start something that wasn't ever there to begin with.
Good Luck!
2006-10-02 08:11:07 · answer #3 · answered by brookebjpl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nope. I have NEVER gone to one of those sites and I get them all the time. These @$$holes phish email address from various sites and the fun begins.
I've gotten breast enlargement emails and my wife has gotten penis enlargement emails. Now go figure that one! These sites are 'shotgunning'. Not only that, but myself AND the wife have received calls from Great Expectations.
If you were to see a 'Get A Home Loan NOW' email would that mean that he's house shopping? I get about a thousand emails a day, of which well over 99% goes into my Bulk folder, and most of them are total BS. I get everything from 'Hot Virgin Teens to 'Win a Free Laptop'.
Don't worry. This is what we call 'much ado about nothing'.
2006-10-02 08:21:15 · answer #4 · answered by Larry F 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
not really..its more than likely spam. Unless he gets a specific email from a single then I wouldnt worry. You can also check to see if he has sent out any emails as well..if not then dont worry. There are sites that will pay to have everyone ever known's email so they can send out spam. I get that crap all of the time and so does my husband, and I can assure you there is no cheating here.
2006-10-02 08:12:18 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you husband might not ha subcribes
but those people sent e-mail all the time to different people
my h and I had filled a questionaire on the internet
all the suddent a bunch of company are sending me e-mail
his secratary has filled the same questionaire because at the time she was single she is receiving e-mail from looking for singles my husband is receiving e-mail for viagra
me is sex toys and all sort of sexual explecit material
all you can do is SPAM them
2006-10-02 08:46:13 · answer #6 · answered by waiting for baby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I get a crap load of them 20 times a day or more in my inbox and bulk mail. And these scams don't know who they are sending them to. They sure don't know how to read. I have gotten singles junk for both women and men. I mean can't they tell by my name that I am not a male looking for a female.
2006-10-02 08:17:32 · answer #7 · answered by Dottie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not worry about it. The amount of e-mail that I get asking if I want to enlarge my penis! It is just junk. Think of the rubbish you get through the snail mail. If he gets junk mail from a real estate agent, do you assume he is moving. Just because it is in his in box, does not mean he is actually going to those sites.
2006-10-02 08:14:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No -- it's spam. There is a chance that he has been at some porn sites that recorded his address and tracked his cookies, but it's not a definite at all that he is going to these sites. It would be wise to keep an eye on his browsing activity if you are curious though. Just click on the history button at the top of Internet Explorer (looks like a clock with an arrow on it).
2006-10-02 08:10:48 · answer #9 · answered by Brian D 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Not necessarily, but if they are coming from a multitude of different dating or match making sites, the chances are good that he is. If you really want to know, go to one of the sites that you know he has a lot of email from and create you a profile. Make your profile match what you know will interest him and see if you can get him to meet up with you. You just need to be sure that you are talking to him and do not end up setting up a date with some one else...LOL
2006-10-02 08:12:41 · answer #10 · answered by Suthern R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I often get spam email from singles dating sites (and offers of Viagra) that I didn't ask for.
In your husband's case, you'd have to see the contents of the email. If they say things like your account, your password, you have new mail, someone wants to meet you, your photo has been approved, well, that's a different story. I suppose if you ask to see the content of the emails and he refuses, you might be concerned.
2006-10-02 08:10:43 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋