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for sex, for my last raise I gave him a one time BJ, This time he wants me to meet him in a hotel once a month for the entire year. He said he will wear protection and just Sex no kissing or anything, It is a big raise. What would you do?

2006-10-02 07:58:53 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Other - Family & Relationships

37 answers

Do what you gotta do to get ahead.

2006-10-02 08:00:47 · answer #1 · answered by hpneil 4 · 0 1

No! When the new girl comes on the block you think you will still get this type of play. You need to use your brain to get promotions not what's between your legs. As a matter of fact he needs to be reported. That's very degrading and just think you are not the first one this has happened to and if you don't stop him you want be the last. What if he was your daughters' boss? I respect my self too much do lower my standards for someone like that. Not only is your boss low-down he is sick.

2006-10-02 08:05:07 · answer #2 · answered by Theresa W. 1 · 0 0

This is sexual harassment. If you really want that raise threaten to tell his wife if you don't get it! It will start with once a month and before you know you'll be pregnant. Then he will be pushing you for an abortion.

Would you let him punch you once a month for a raise? What is the difference.

As for your part in this. Are you a whore? Because they are the ones that get paid for sex.

2006-10-02 08:04:29 · answer #3 · answered by my_iq_135 5 · 0 0

how much is ur pride worth ? Sleeping ur way to the top is not the way to get there. Have some pride and respect for yourself. No raise is worth degrading urself. but just the fact that u have already done this he will expect more andmore all the time then when the younger prettier thinner girl with the same low respect for herself comes in u will be gone , yesterdays news. See i work hard in my job and it pisses me off that people like u degrade themselves and let bosses like this get away with sexual harassment.

2006-10-02 08:05:07 · answer #4 · answered by ~~*Brownie*~~ 2 · 0 0

You are kidding me right? this man is a sleaze and is abusing his position, and been allowed to by people who don't say NO. What happened to working the way up the corporate ladder the old fashioned way."Hard Work" . Would you not have much more self worth knowing you got your raise by actually deserving it by your own merits rather than sleeping your way to the top. You don't need anyone to answer this for you, the fact you are asking the question means you are considering it so I am not going to waste any more of my valuable time.

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2016-10-15 10:50:44 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0 0

first, ask yourself how desperate do you need the money.
If its for a legit purpose like really helping family finances, why not?
But again there is no assurance that his demands will stop there. The moment you give in, lady you're at his mercy.

But if the raise will just allow you to indulge in more luxuries in life (clothes,
shoes, bags, etc) I'll say no. it it's for stature I'll say no.

You must remember that what your boss is doing is blackmail.
He's a DOM.

2006-10-02 08:12:04 · answer #7 · answered by ang-pogi-ko 3 · 0 0

black male, tape that **** once and use that to get money for just not showing it to the police, or the rest of the company... or whatever, then once he has paid you enough then give the money to a friend, and dont ever spend any of it, and tell the police he was gonna fire you if you didn't sleep with him, lol thats funny have fun reap benefits for being a hooooooooooooooo

2006-10-02 08:03:38 · answer #8 · answered by J from O 4 · 0 0

since you already gave him a bj, you might as well go ahead and go all the way. Just be ready for him to not stick to the original agreement and expect more from you. If you think its worth it, go ahead and do it, but be advised that he will own you.

2006-10-02 08:03:02 · answer #9 · answered by she lied 1 · 0 0

Are you a prostitute? Then no. That's sick and wrong, and you may even be able to get more in a sexual harassment suit. Personally, I wouldn't be able to live with myself after sleeping with my boss for a raise...urgggh. Don't do it, have some integrity.

2006-10-02 08:10:08 · answer #10 · answered by koala988 2 · 0 0

I agree with Elkie. If anyone else ever found out about it, you wouldn't only have to forget about your raise, but you will have to concern yourself with some court proceedings. What you are considering is not only immoral, but illegal, and I would advise strongly against it. If you want to sleep with him, then you need to leave his department before you have any relations with him.

2006-10-02 08:04:34 · answer #11 · answered by Brian D 3 · 0 0

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