My friends ditch me and ignore me when their with another friend. I'm feeling useless. One calls me names and ignores me. One just plain ignores me and only talks to me when none of her friends are there. How should I deal with them?
2006-10-02 07:53:07 · 12 answers · asked by asdf; 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
i ditched them and saw what they would do, but they didnt even notice i was gone! i walk home from school and was right behind them and they didnt even know i was even there. I went home thinking if I was shot or something tragic, if THEN they would care for me..
2006-10-02 08:02:40 · update #1
DROP THEM! they obviously aren't real friends. if they have a problem saying or showing that you're their friend then you don't need to hang around them. relationships like that can end in a serious scenario. they could have alternative motives to talking to you or using you for something. It could be money, or it could be just a part of them that they don't want to show other people. either way, beings friends isn't talking to someone then ignoring them. you don't have to put yourself on that level to have friends. people will respect you for not taking crap from other people even if they say otherwise.
they probably notice you as much as you are noticing them. foreget about them, and move on...that's the definition of the 'ditching' you're doing. they prbably notice that you notice, too. don't play their game and let it get to you. when you're thinking of them, just stop that thought and move on...think or the friends you need to be looking for.
2006-10-02 08:03:22 · answer #1 · answered by Haadeeyah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi there! I advice you not to react on anything they do to you, I know it’s difficult but that is the right thing to do. When they will notice that you are not reacting or when they call names and you don't even bother they will start to feel curious to know what is going on. Then when they come to you, you should act as if nothing has ever happen wrong between you and them, then the frustrated bunch of your friends (actually they are not your friends) will either burst on you or will take a side, and in both ways the advantage is yours because if they burst, you can see the inner self of them and if they take a side, you are free from their so-called friendship.
Don't worry, just be patient, you will soon make some true friends.
God Bless ^__^
2006-10-02 08:22:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had the same problem. I never solved it right on the spot but I know what I should have done. you shouldn't have to hang with so called friends like them. I mean if they treat you like trash then make like a tree and leaf. there are many other people out there willing to be friends with you. I would be willing to be friends with you. You deserve better friends than that, no one deserves to be treated like that. Not even your worst enemy. ditch them.
2006-10-02 07:59:53 · answer #3 · answered by Patient NightShade 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-18 09:01:43 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are not happy with your friends then it's time to move on...Just treat them how they treat you...Ignore them, they will get the picture...Everyone has been in that same situation...
Don't let them disrespect you like that....They obviously want YOU on THEIR time and not vice verse
It's not going to be the end of the world, letting them go
2006-10-02 08:07:48 · answer #5 · answered by fatiegurl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to make new friends with ppl who don't like your old friends adult advise is useless to you at this age so I'm going back to school on ya, get better at being a witch to them not bitter.
2006-10-02 07:59:44 · answer #6 · answered by Mrs. Butler ♥2 B♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
screw them. im 25 and everyonce in a while i do a "friend audit"
and i look at who im hanging out with and if they arent doing anything for me professionally or personally or getting me into trouble, i ditch them altogether. its harsh, but you "have to do you"
noone else is goiing to help you in life. and as for these stupid broads screw them, this happens all the time in school and
as a former "mean girl" myself, the will get nowhere in life fast being that mean, branch out and find new friends.
2006-10-02 07:59:12 · answer #7 · answered by Jenster*is*flipping*you*off 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow. Find new friends. People that make fun of you and ditch you are not real friends.
2006-10-02 08:03:09 · answer #8 · answered by Aubrey's mommy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find new friends. Usually I'd say 'Get revenge' but people like that aren't worth it. Just forget about it and find people who really do appreaciate you.
2006-10-02 07:57:55 · answer #9 · answered by c_mitu89 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
these friends arent really friends if that is how they act cause friends actually care if u live or die, what u do, and they wanna hang with you so iwouldnt stress these two they sound really ignorant
2006-10-02 08:08:45 · answer #10 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋