I have a gf and we used to have sex alot. I never had prob with my erections ever. About 2 months a go me and my girl broke up? I broke up with her casue i lost feelings for her. She flipped out like ive never seen anyone do. After i broke up with her i couldnt get an erection when trying to mastrubate. I think it was due to the fact that i just felt so guilty. I got back with her for the mere reason of getting my penis up in wich i could sometimes. Now im just depressed and have a hard time getting it up. I was so freaked out about my problem i went to about 4 different doctors and they all did testes and said i was fine and it was in my head. I am unhappy in my relationship but scared to leave cause im afraid i will suffer the same problem. Sometimes it feels like i cant get it up because im forcing myself to be with this person. Has anyone been in a similar situatiion. Some serios advice would help out alot.
2006-10-02 07:23:37 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Men's Health
Sounds like the first problem was indeed feeling guilty...and now, it's because you realise you made a mistake getting back with this person you really don't love and who manipulated you by freaking out. And of course there's performance anxiety to deal with...you can't get it up because you're afraid you won't be able to get it up...and like that.
Take some time off from all relationships. Work on your career and/or studies. Develop as a person. You can't allow your life to be defined by another person because we're all fallible and mortal. Get a fresh start and don't even worry about having sex with anyone until it develops naturally and you really *want* to. It's not surprising your emotions are all churned up, and that affects your body. Male sexuality is a very delicate balance...be kind to yourself and take it easy for a while.
2006-10-02 07:29:06 · answer #1 · answered by anna 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do you have any other conditions like diabetes or do you drink alot of alcohol. They are 2 common things associated with erectile dysfunction. Ulness your problem was pretty ACUTE then it acute case maybe because of depression/ mental block.
You need to relax with some good porn or magazine...at least make sure it's functional.
If this has been a progressive problem then maybe there's some pathology there. Do you get morning erections? ( no need to answer here...just to yourself). Start worrying if you cannot get morning erections or if you cannot get it up when masturbating. If that's fine then you and your piggy are fine, no worries.
2006-10-02 07:34:32 · answer #2 · answered by princess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are obviously riddled with guilt. Have you deceived this girl in any way about your feelings for her? Cheated on her? Lied to yourself about your feelings? Once you deal with the guilt, you'll probably be okay. Maybe in your next relationship you should cultivate your feelings to be sure they're legitimate before you're intimate.
2006-10-02 07:30:30 · answer #3 · answered by Hemingway 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depression can a lot of the time cause erectile dysfunction. Are you taking any different medications? Maybe you're diabetic and don't know it?
2006-10-02 07:25:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are a head case....stay away from the ex?gf and get a new life. Eventually your d1ck will work again. Trust me
2006-10-02 07:32:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your biggest problem is your spelling and typing skills. They are terrible. Though I must say I chuckled when I read all the doctors did "testes". hahahahahahahaha
2006-10-02 07:29:09 · answer #6 · answered by J D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump the girl. Move on. In time, your dick will rise to the occassion.
2006-10-02 07:47:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try herbal supplements
2006-10-02 21:13:12 · answer #8 · answered by ageless 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im not sure about the whole erection thing but wow. that is so sad that u r doing that 2 her. i cry 4 her :'( if she knew wut u were doing, she would be devistated.
2006-10-02 07:51:05 · answer #9 · answered by lhsbeachbabe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to long of a question. keep your penis problems to yourself nobody wants to read that crap you freak
2006-10-02 07:25:44 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋