I know people say this is normal but i have unwanted thoughts alot. They could be sexual or only mean like my friends, family, just about anyone. It is like no more than a 2-3 second thought and i think of it out of no where. I don't think i ever used to before my ex boyfriend who was very controlling. I had to tell him everything i did and basically every thought so maybe that is what brought it on. Do you guys get this?
2006-10-02 07:14:29 · 5 answers · asked by Tia H 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Yeah got it... you're actually going through a state of uncociousness in that period...
The starting point for this investigation is provided by a fact without parallel, which defies all explanation or description--the fact of consciousness. Nevertheless, if anyone speaks of consciousness, we know immediately and from our own most personal experience what is meant by it. Many people, both inside and outside the science of psychology, are satisfied with the assumption that consciousness alone is mental, and nothing then remains for psychology but to discriminate in the phenomenology of the mind between perceptions, feelings, intellective processes and volitions. It is generally agreed, however, that these conscious processes do not form unbroken series which are complete in themselves; so that there is no alternative to assuming that there are physical or somatic processes which accompany the mental ones and which must admittedly be more complete than the mental series, since some of them have conscious processes parallel to them but others have not. It thus seems natural to lay the stress in psychology upon these somatic processes, to see in them the true essence of what is mental and to try to arrive at some other assessment of the conscious processes. The majority of philosophers, however, as well as many other people, dispute this position and declare that the notion of a mental thing being unconscious is self-contradictory.
But it is precisely this that psychoanalysis is obliged to assert, and this is its second fundamental hypothesis. It explains the supposed somatic accessory processes as being what is essentially mental and disregards for the moment the quality of consciousness....
We are soon led to make an important division in this unconscious. Some processes become conscious easily; they may then cease to be conscious, but can become conscious once more without any trouble: as people say, they can be reproduced or remembered. This reminds us that consciousness is in general a very highly fugitive condition. What is conscious is conscious only for a moment. If our perceptions do not confirm this, the contradiction is merely an apparent one. It is explained by the fact that the stimuli of perception can persist for some time so that in the course of it the perception of them can be repeated. The whole position can be clearly seen from the conscious perception of our intellective processes; it is true that these may persist, but they may just as easily pass in a flash. Everything unconscious that behaves in this way, that can easily exchange the unconscious condition for the conscious one, is therefore better described as "capable of entering consciousness," or as preconscious. Experience has taught us that there are hardly any mental processes, even of the most complicated kind, which cannot on occasion remain preconscious, although as a rule they press forward, as we say, into consciousness. There are other mental processes or mental material which have no such easy access to consciousness, but which must be inferred, discovered, and translated into conscious form in the manner that has been described. It is for such material that we reserve the name of the unconscious proper.
Thus we have attributed three qualities to mental processes: they are either conscious, preconscious, or unconscious. The division between the three classes of material which have these qualities is neither absolute nor permanent. What is preconscious becomes conscious, as we have seen, without any activity on our part; what is unconscious can, as a result of our efforts, be made conscious, though in the process we may have an impression that we are overcoming what are often very strong resistances. When we make an attempt of this kind upon someone else, we ought not to forget that the conscious filling up of the breaks in his perceptions--the construction which we are offering him--does not so far mean that we have made conscious in him the unconscious material in question. All that is so far true is that the material is present in his mind in two versions, first in the conscious reconstruction that he has just received and secondly in its original unconscious condition.
2006-10-03 14:56:03 · answer #1 · answered by Ω Nookey™ 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
They say this book is great for thinking less on unwanted thoughts: White Bears and Other Unwanted Thoughts: Suppression, obsession and the Psychology of Mental Control by Daniel M. Wegner
Haven't read it myself, but they say it's good.
2006-10-02 11:47:20 · answer #2 · answered by pulsi 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Unwanted thoughts are very normal. Stress and other external factors cause them. Now that you are away from the ultra-control freak they should subside and not be as often. If you ever have the unfortunate brain malfunction of attaching yourself to another control freak like that just ignore those random thoughts in your reports. In case they ask as they are happening you can always say nothing I'm just spacing.
2006-10-02 07:25:00 · answer #3 · answered by The Druid 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Unwanted thoughts are normal. A boyfriend wanting to know your every thoughts are not. I`m glad for you he`s X. keep it that way and BE your own person. Enjoy Life to the Fullest
2006-10-02 07:19:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
it is selfabandonment.
2006-10-02 07:42:04 · answer #5 · answered by dhandhorchee - 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋