we were sitting around the same area she came first but anyways i know this might sound desperate but..i told her can I use a pen.... my pen's ink is running out ..she like looked at me and said yeah you can ...i said thanks then i handed it back and i was like thanks and she was like ur welcome...so if i c heragain should i try talk to her more? cause shes random just some girl sitting in college not in my class or anything
2006-10-02 07:13:56 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
umm sure..wouldnt hurt to say hi or wuts up..maybe it'll blossom into summin in the future..who knows
2006-10-02 07:15:41 · answer #1 · answered by tyty_loves_matty 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
stop stalking the poor girl just because she was polite. that was NOT a come-on or invitation to continue the attempt. anybody would loan you a pen, even if they thought you were unattractive etc. do not read so much into ordinary politeness.
if she wanted to prolong the bit, she would have said more, like "now you owe me a favor' or "give it back to me saturday nite baby" . Or " when can i get something hard and straight from you , mr hottie?" or "is that all you want?" Girls know how to flirt and this girl was NOT flirting.
2006-10-02 07:20:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Most good college students have more than one pen handy. Women are smart -- they know this. In my opinion, you've already blow your opportunity Rico Suave... Judging by the grammar in your question, you should say very little to the ladies and look in to an English class...
2006-10-02 07:27:46 · answer #3 · answered by SkiHard 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you like her then I would talk to her again...maybe offer her your pen as a kind of reminder of where you've talked to her before. Then maybe ask her what her major is or something to get the conversation going.
2006-10-02 07:18:14 · answer #4 · answered by naughtykitty94 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like that meant absolutely nothing. You used her pen, you said thank you, and she said you're welcome. That's about it. Simply a polite, but meaningless interaction. If you like her and you see her again, you can try to strike up a conversation but I might choose a different topic.
2006-10-02 07:38:29 · answer #5 · answered by τεκνον θεου 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say it probably doesn't mean anything except she has an extra pen and is nice.
Talk with her some more and ask her out if you like her.
2006-10-02 07:17:21 · answer #6 · answered by a_blue_grey_mist 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im sorry, but that's REALLY desperate!
i ask for pens all the time, and i get the same response, from either male of female...
there's nothing between that!
2006-10-02 07:17:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Down boy! She let you borrow a pen.
2006-10-02 07:17:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
just start a random conversation. nothing too personal at first. ask her about her homework. or make a comment about the class or the professor (always good conversation starters). if you like her and want a date, dont jump into it too soon. casual conversation is a good starter.
2006-10-02 07:16:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
talk to her if you thought she was cute, can't hurt, maybe next time shoot for a piece of paper with that pen....with phone #s
2006-10-02 07:16:54 · answer #10 · answered by chastityelizabeth 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋