They comunicated in Internet , she is from an other country and they met the summer and now he tells me to stay with him for a month so he can choose.Am I able to do that or to trust him any more ....
2006-10-02 07:12:35 · 12 answers · asked by e p 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Basically he is telling you he wants to shop around and wants you to wait for him in case it doesn't work out. You need to get your head examined if you don't tell him to get lost. You may have some self-esteem issues. Try doing some reasearch on the internet or read a book to help you raise it. No body should put up with that from another person or even have to question whether they are going to wait or dump the creeps @ss!!!
2006-10-02 07:23:53 · answer #1 · answered by grudgrime 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why are you waiting around for some guy to decide what you are going to do with your life?
Dump this loser. He clearly has no loyalty to you if he is maintaining relationships with other women that exclude you. That is cheating. Why do you tolerate that from a guy? Don't you think you deserve beter? And, the only thing you ca trust about his, is to have total disregard for you and your feelings.
Move on, girl, and find a guy who is so good to you, you will want to brag to all your friends about him. Find a guy who deserves your attention and affection. Someone who is into you, and you alone. You need to be "the chooser" not the other way around.
Someone taught this guy a long time ago, that a woman was his choice, and he has the right to treat them however he wishes. Someone taught him that it is ok to "have another woman in his back pocket", or a spare if you will, as if he has the right to do that to people. Someone forgot to teach him how to have integrity.
There is nothing you can do to help him "unlearn" this bad behavior. It is a giant waving red flag. I would recommend that you put yourself first, and lose the loser.
2006-10-02 07:26:32 · answer #2 · answered by pandora the cat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The fact that your boyfriend would even bring this to you is all the indication that he is not the one for you. He's actually doing you a favor by showing you exactly what type of person he is NOW before you waste anymore time with him.
He's confused??? Confused is when you're trying to figure out VCR instructions in a foreign language. He's just trying to get laid from some ho' he met on the Internet and hopefully keep you on standby.
2006-10-02 07:20:12 · answer #3 · answered by E. Gads 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
"never make someone a priority to you when you are merely an option for them" let that loser go!!! why would you give a guy the power to choose if he cares about you enough to not pick some other chick over you. he's a jerk and he doesnt' deserve you!!
2006-10-02 07:17:26 · answer #4 · answered by *KiM* 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think you should let him go.... He has no reason to choice between you and this other girl.... He should honest with you about what happened and brake it off if something did..... He is just playing you and her both..... Leave his cheating a**....
2006-10-02 07:21:18 · answer #5 · answered by moonangel1121 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dump his a$$ obviously he rather be an internet whore leave him...YOU CAN DO BETTER!!!!!! Tell the Looser to go to Hell!
2006-10-02 07:17:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
if the man want go let him go cause if you don't he'll do it behind your back man will be man DOGS more like it
2006-10-02 07:16:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
let him go he is a looser if he dosnt know what he wants then u make him deside dont let him waist your time its yours not his to waist
2006-10-02 07:29:18 · answer #8 · answered by imhot_4_u 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are people so GULLIBLE??!!
Would you want this schmuck? Really? He wants to choose between you and someone else and you aren't asking him to kiss your grits and leave town on the next train?
Please Please Please - tell me you're not that gullible.
FP
2006-10-02 07:16:41 · answer #9 · answered by F. Perdurabo 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
agreed. let him go. if there is even a question in his mind about who he wants, you dont want him
2006-10-02 07:16:13 · answer #10 · answered by bamagrits84 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋