I'm 16, and I have a crush on my teacher. I don't blush or giggle, and none of my friends know. But I still comment him sometimes with compliments like "This is my favorite class!" or "I really liked that book!" I hope he doesn't know, but does he? I know that he is extremely intelligent, which is why I really like him. I also went to this after school thing with my mother where you meet teachers, and I wore a skirt and I don't know if it seemed like I was dressing up for him? I'm sort of worried, does he know? What will he think of me? I'm getting a really high A in the class, so I hope he doesn't hate me! I don't know if perhaps I'm unconsciously flirting with him by the compliments and smooth talking I have?
2006-10-02 07:07:25 · 13 answers · asked by 1 1 in Education & Reference ➔ Primary & Secondary Education
Based on what you have written here, the teacher would have to be really lame not to get it. He knows.
2006-10-02 07:10:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm glad you like brainy guys instead of those with baggy pants, sideways hats, and not much hope for a future! crushes and flirting are fun and healthy, but there is a line. Learn what you can from him, learn about yourself, than reevaluate the situation when you are a legal adult-not a student. Keep those standards high!!
2006-10-02 07:20:53 · answer #2 · answered by mom is a freak 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I hope you wore a matching blouse otherwise you gave it away at the meeting. The best that can happen at this point is he goes to jail and you write a book about being taken advantage of...
Get over him and learn to look for other signs of love aside from just dampness in your drawers.
2006-10-02 07:19:47 · answer #3 · answered by snvffy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So I teach middle school and I have had an inkling that some of my students had crushed upon me and to be honest I never give it a second thought past a potential amusing anecdote. I am happily married as he likely is, and merely devoting any brain cells to thoughts is just wrong.
You can crush on him all you want. Wear whatever, say whatever, as long as it is appropriate for school. He (if he is a responsible adult) will likely be polite and professional. He shouldn't acknowledge that you are crushing on him, so don't expect a response...actually be fearful if you do.
2006-10-02 07:19:06 · answer #4 · answered by alwaysmoose 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
If you really like your teacher, then stop flirting and being overly friendly with him. It could cost him his job, even if someone thinks he might like you back. There is nothing wrong with a crush, but nowadays they get blown out of proportion. Find a boy your own age.
2006-10-02 07:17:44 · answer #5 · answered by Poetess_4U 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I use to like my teacher when I was 15 exept every other girl in class did too I remeber his name was Mr.Johnson and we use to hold his hand and everything he was really nice about it he really didnt care. Dont worry even if he knew that happenes alot we get attached to our teachers and sometimes end up likeing them because you see him everyday. But dont even worry about it seriously beleave it or not its normal and teachers know this.
2006-10-02 07:12:34 · answer #6 · answered by lola 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably does like you in that way. My guess is that he really doesn't want to show it in front of all the students. But if you are impressing him, keep it up!!! I did and I got that grade. But you really don't want to go to far b/c if you do then he could turn you in for sexual harrassment. You don't want that to happen. He might even have a wife that is living with him. I don't know if he is, but he might. Who knows!!!
2006-10-02 07:20:38 · answer #7 · answered by Sam 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he knows, but he doesnt care.
teachers go through this constantly. you think you're the first teenaged girl to like a teacher?
dont worry, he probably thinks it's cute.
just dont try anything. that'd be a great way to either get him fired, or get yourself expelled.
2006-10-02 07:15:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you care about him at all, leave him alone, otherwise he could be put on acedemic probation if he wanted to reciprocate. Wait until you're 18 then if you are still goo-goo over him, pursue it.
2006-10-02 07:13:08 · answer #9 · answered by James 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It's children like you that have this world in a turmoil. Does this man have a wife? Does he have children? Realize what you are doing. Find a boy your age and stop screwing with older men.
2006-10-02 07:16:59 · answer #10 · answered by gel 3 · 0⤊ 4⤋