ok he has been in love with me scence the middle of last year and i'v just been turning him down and then he told me he didn't love me any more....but i just relized he's a great friend and he likes to goof off and do wierd stuff like me and hes not like the other guyes that are on the foot ball team and are all stuck up like there cheer leader gf's. the point is he's finaly over me but im just now figuring out i'v liked him all along and just not seen it. what should i do?
2006-10-02 06:47:13 · 8 answers · asked by froggy_luvrrr 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I have been in the same situation. Just tell him how you feel. If he doesn't like you back it's okay. There are other guys out there. Just tell him how you feel and be honest. Tell him how you love how goofy and fun he is. How you like having someone as crazy as you around and that you would like to give it a shot.Tell him u are sorry that you didn't see it in the first place. But, relationships can mess up friendships so choose wisely. But i say give it a shot.
2006-10-02 06:52:57 · answer #1 · answered by Stephanie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like isnt the same as love...you would have known that within the first few meetings with him. Your ego is hurting because you no longer have the attention...thats all. Get over yourself and get on with your life. You didnt feel the chemistry...and thats ok. Platonic friendship wasnt what he had in mind at all...and you only want it or "more" now to be bigger than the cheerleaders. Take comfort in the fact he wanted you first....and the airheads got him. If they werent around and he was still hounding you...you'd still be fending him off....so quit being a crybaby.
2006-10-02 06:55:47 · answer #2 · answered by Scully 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Opportunity knocks and you open the door ! Make a fire while there is a spark !
Make hay while the sun is shining !
All are metaphors pertaining to your situation. You shouldn't have waited so long to make up your mind. He probably got tired of the chase and gave up on having anything with you. Too bad...........good luck !
2006-10-02 10:43:28 · answer #3 · answered by turbietech 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You didn't like him all along. You just like him now because you can't have him and he doesn't want you anymore. Can't have your cake and eat it too, kiddo!
2006-10-02 06:50:56 · answer #4 · answered by Stephanie S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay his friend. expect the worst but hope for the best.... you slow you blow....you never miss a good thing until it's gone.
2006-10-02 06:50:19 · answer #5 · answered by goldie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are a day late and a dollar short, get over it, move on.
2006-10-02 06:51:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing--you missed your chance.
2006-10-02 06:49:28 · answer #7 · answered by Miss J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
like and love isn't the same
2006-10-02 07:06:57 · answer #8 · answered by Plumerias are from Hawaii! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋