wen should i stop having children, im 25 married and have 3 kids, there 5,4,2. we are thinking about having number 4 but most people think were mad wot do yous all think. anybody feel the same way as me that they would like to have lots of children, your thoughts would really help xx
2006-10-02 06:45:30 · 41 answers · asked by claire 3 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
i can afford to have more children and i have a big enough house 4 more kids, i feel great in my self and think im so lucky b/c i love being a full time mum. thanx 4 ur thoughts xx
2006-10-02 07:10:39 · update #1
to alleycat why bother answering this question if youve nothing to write apart from insults. I do know how to write properly i was only shorting words down like when you text someone!!! and im not american im from the uk!
2006-10-02 07:17:40 · update #2
I think you should have as many children as you and your husband would desire to have. It's your body, your life. Do what you please. I'm in a similar place. I'm 26 with 3 sons, 7,4,and 14 months. I too would love to get underway to have #4 and everyone seems to think I am nuts. I really don't care. If my husband and I want to have 532 kids and we have the desire and physical ability to so then we'll do so. Don't let others dictate how you want to live. Respect their thoughts and hold to being who you want to be and to who's momma you want be.
2006-10-02 07:47:35 · answer #1 · answered by LeanyBean 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why have them at all? You might have a big house, and enough money to feed them. Seriously, the rest of us have to make up the tax burden to put them though school, and so on. After all, with all those kids you will not be forking out taxes. The earth does not need your kids!
Where are your 4 or more kids going to get jobs? In case you haven't noticed there are not enough to go around.
Unfortunately it is not legal to tie you up, and sterilize you so we can do nothing about your crimes against the Earth. We can only hope that you get cancer and are forced to get a hysterectomy before you do more damage.
Sorry to sound so mean. Honestly is seldom kind, in the real world.
2006-10-03 04:11:11 · answer #2 · answered by Marvin 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I've heard that most women know when they are done having kids. Either they physically, emotionally, or financially can't have any more. Or they just don't get baby hungry once their youngest grows out of that baby stage and they couldn't imagine having another baby. If you aren't having any of these feelings then you probably should have another kid. I too have 3 kids, and I'm married and 24, but mine are 3 1/2 years, 21 months, and 2 months. I know I want to have at least 1 more but of course I'm going to wait another couple of years. For a while I've been thinking seriously about what my family and friends have said about me having too many kids. But now I've realized that it's my life and my choice, as long as I'm being responsible and thinking it through first. Now it's just between my husband and I.
2006-10-02 07:05:03 · answer #3 · answered by mommyem 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How many can you afford to pay for? Children aren't a piece of furniture where on make a purchase and take it home. You have to be prepared to maintain them, food, clothing, education, health-care. When my son was small they said the average cost of a child from birth to 18 years of age, note no college or university or even trade school education, was $180,000. Well that was a number of years ago so we know the figure is a lot higher. Can you afford another child?
2006-10-02 06:53:04 · answer #4 · answered by Lynn K 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am 21 and on my second pregnancy.I would like 2 have a big family (i want 10 kids)I love being a mum i come from a big family so im used 2 having kids around. I think u should do wat u want and have as many as u and ur partner want and can afford a big family is always a happy one.
2006-10-02 09:05:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should learn how to write and spell in English before you have any more kids. This world is totally overpopulated enough. It still shocks me how many Americans cannot spell or write. What the heck did you learn in school??? Somehow I managed to learn how to read & write growing up in the hood in the NYC public education system. Why can't anybody else???? It's "when" not "wen, "what" not "wot", YOU, not YOUS, they're not "there" and "we're" not "were". I and I'm needs to be capitalized as does the first word of every new sentence. And it seems you missed out on contractions and apostrophes. It's really not that hard people! Don't you realize how ignorant you seem when you write this way? When I see this, I think it's pathetic. So no, don't go and have any more children.
2006-10-02 06:54:56 · answer #6 · answered by Alleycat 5 · 1⤊ 4⤋
Well people can say what they want I have 2 kids already and 37 weeks pregnant i am 22 of course i am married to the guy i have had all my kids with that is you and your husband choice if ya'll want another go for it is you and your husband choice there is nothing like experiencing child birth and having your kids it is the greatest gift of all, my life is about my kids i would do anything for them
2006-10-02 06:51:27 · answer #7 · answered by TinkerBell 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if you have a love for children, and you can reasonably afford to, have as many as you like. Children are wonderful, and a blessing to have. Just don't go overboard and get yourself into something you can't afford. I don't mean to sound that way, but it is just so much easier and less stressful for families to stay within their income capabilities.
2006-10-02 06:50:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having children is not a game to see who can have the most. It is all on what you could financially afford. If you can afford 4 than go for it!
2006-10-02 06:49:04 · answer #9 · answered by DO IT! 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should have as many kids as you want!
It's nobody else's business how many kids you have, if you want 1000, then go ahead and have them.
You've stated that you can afford and house more children, so if you want them, don't let anyone stop you!
My Aunt had 8 children, she can afford and house them. They are all looked after wonderfully and perfectly happy.
I bet your a brilliant Mum and as I have already said, if you want more children, then you go ahead sweetheart!
Good Luck!
2006-10-02 08:39:51 · answer #10 · answered by Kirk_84 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋