i have been married for 2 years and w/ him for 4 years and he just told me i'm not sexy to him he dosent see my sexapeal and i'm not exotic oor sudictive...how can i become that for him ..i'm a woman but a lil rough around the edges ..i was a tomboyish girl growing up ..please help
2006-10-02 06:39:49 · 31 answers · asked by shyztoy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
well stockings and sexy underwear always does it for me...
short skirts and no undies (and tell him so when you're out somewhere)...
plus a few naughty texts...
and grab him when he's in the shower...
2006-10-02 06:41:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
In all of my psychology classes we are told that the best wedding gift for any couple is the Karma Sutra book. It is a bit crazy and out there, but it opens up communication and allows the couple to try new things together. If you have already tried that then just do something different and new. Find a time that both of you can spend alone and together. Do something crazy like go walking in the pouring rain and kiss in the rain. Generally being drenched in water and adding fun and youth to it will make it hard to keep any clothes on when you get back to the house to change back into dry clothes. Just try new things, get some new lingerie and have some fun together.
2006-10-02 13:44:03 · answer #2 · answered by laurenrenee03 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't leave your girl jock behind and change into someone you're not comfortable in being. There are sexy active weary type clothes for tomboyish girls like us. The first time I wore my cycle gear and was trying to get out the door, I was thrown over his shoulder and on the couch for some Sunday morning 'exercise', it can be done girl, go for it!
2006-10-02 14:00:16 · answer #3 · answered by Boots4ACowgirl 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
if you are "tomboyish" and like wearing your jeans and sneakers, etc. try wearing something a little more feminine and sexy like heals and short lowcut dress. Maybe try doing something different with your hair and wear some more makeup. Make sure the clothes that you wear bring out your best attributes on your body. Good luck.
2006-10-02 13:43:12 · answer #4 · answered by Stacy H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sexy hair cut
sexy clothes
sexy thoughts,
rest is up 2 U
ask UR girlfriends 4 more suitable advice than U'll probably get on here.
But B prepared 2 laugh at some of the wacky suggestions.
2006-10-02 13:43:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is you should become a new personality everyday and change as much as you can afford and then try to appeal him and get him interested in you. This is a common problem in both men and women that is why i feel marriage is becoming a failed institution. The couples look for fresh appeal even though they are rejected in their previous ones.
2006-10-02 13:44:02 · answer #6 · answered by ravishr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm....
-Lose some weight
-Get a nice tan
-Let your hair grow long, healthy, and flowy.
-If you're thin, wear nice tight clothes to flaunt what you've got.
-Buy launjeré (sp) with lace and all
-Hide some whips/handcuffs under the bed
-Use some teeth whitener
-Wear sexy makeup
-Make him feel like you're all his and he's got you all to himself.
-And, if you must, read some about how to make your time in the bed together more pleasurable.
-Get your nails done
-Pluck your eyebrows
-Wear a kind of purfume you KNOW he can't resist.
2006-10-02 13:43:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's a fking idiot. I just don't understand these men.
If he cared about your feelings he'd think about someone else while making love to you and you'd never know about it. He isn't even doing that for you. Maybe the married women on here can advise you. Good luck.
2006-10-02 13:48:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Hire an Private Eye
He's cheating on you!
Then find someone who will appreciate you for who you really are.
Sorry not trying to be mean to you just speaking the truth.
2006-10-02 13:55:17 · answer #9 · answered by ericusa3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to the salon and get a makeover. hair/makeup/nails and pick up some different clothing, maybe a bottle of wine to spice things up.
2006-10-02 13:42:03 · answer #10 · answered by Katie G 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You have to be yourself. Trying to be the woman your husband wants will only work for a short while. He knew what you were like when he married you, so it is his problem. Don't suck up to him. Tell him to take it or leave it.
2006-10-02 13:41:52 · answer #11 · answered by Cary Grant 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋