Is it ok to snoop on my husband?

Question

I check the computer, his cell phone, and the mail? Is there a better way?

Answer 1

No it's not okay. If you don't trust him...YOU have issues. If you want to know something, you should be able to just ask him and trust his answers to be true. He should not be hiding anything from you, but snooping is dishonesty on your part

Answer 2

Why do you feel the need to snoop on ur husband has he given you a reason to feel this way. I would seriously sit back and evaluate the type of relationship that you have and see if it is worth continuing just by what your stating in your question

Answer 3

My wife checks my email for me when I am out of town,, she can use my cell phone whenever she wants, and she checks the mail not me,,

Because,,, we trust each other,,,, if you are that worried you had better re-examine your relationship.

Answer 4

Is it okay if your husband snoops on You?

If you suspect that there is something awry in your relationship with your husband, than calmly, respectfully -and without accusation or character assassination - approach your husband about your concerns and request that he be honest and forthright with you.

"We can't go on this way - with suspicious minds,
and we can't build own dreams on suspicious lies ..."

Elvis Presley - "Suspicious Minds"

Answer 5

If you feel that you need to snoop...perhaps there is a bigger problem. You should be able to trust him. If you can't, you need to discuss your relationship. Good luck.

Answer 6

Trust. If you are snooping, chances are there is a reason to snoop.

Answer 7

Yes, talk to him! Why are you suspicious? Has he done anything to justify your suspicions?

If not, stop invading his privacy! If so, get counseling.