My best friend is stupid. She has a boy friend she keeps("She loves") Her friend on the side(His friend that she aborted his child while still with her boy friend) Her numerous fan club of calls(His football friends that "love" her) Isn't that crazy... And to top it all off she now want to have children because Im trying with my HUSBAND... What the hell right?
2006-10-02 05:31:55 · 12 answers · asked by Pinky Stinky 1 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
I'm her best friend and with all these issues that she wants to talk about, it drives you crazy. I help her all the time and she does take most of the advice but she still gets into this.
Its not that im in her business but we are like close sisters and we tell each other our business so it kind of crazy when you run out of advice because of this mess.
2006-10-02 06:39:43 · update #1
My sister is like that. She has such serious issues and she thinks we are in competition. I got married to a guy in the Navy. She goes and starts dating a guy in the Army and marries him (she had known him 4 months, I have know my husband for 10 years). We got an apartment (one bedroom), she got a two bedroom. So know we just moved to a bigger place, so I guess she will be moving again too. I got a 1998 altima, she brought a 1999 altima. It's crazy.
2006-10-02 05:41:11 · answer #1 · answered by Microbiology.girl 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your friend is jealous. So your married and going to try and have kids. Sounds like she doesn't have anyone substainal in her life and jealous of your marriage and the loving relationship that goes along with it. So she is trying to keep up. That way she can always one up you.
You get prego w/your husband and she can stand in the spotlight with you. Where if she doesn't she is just the whore that keeps sleeping around (which a baby won't change).
You know they say you are the company you keep so perhaps you may want to start finding a more stable friend. Especially after you have kids she and her destructive lifestyle does not need to be around your happy family.
2006-10-02 12:37:52 · answer #2 · answered by MaryJaneD 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That sounds like a stinky pinky situation.
I had a so-called best friend who set her wedding date two weeks before mine, even though she knew my wedding date even before she got engaged and knew that we'd be getting married in different states (making it incredibly difficult for friends invited to both or even each other to attend both weddings). Then when our friends tried to plan a shower for me, she kept ignoring them. They were trying to come up with a date for all of them to come to my town (we're all scattered). They had to finally set a date without her ever responding and when they sent out the date she came back saying 'oh, that's the weekend of MY shower.'
AND THEN (yes, it's better)...
I called her up to apologize that I wouldn't be able to attend her wedding because hey, it's 2 weeks before mine and my fiance was moving that weekend into our apartment. She said she understood but then never even RSVPed for my wedding.
The email I sent to her telling her why I was upset about everything was the last communication we had. It's a shame. But it felt like everything she was doing was to beat me to the punch and upstage me.
So I know "best friends" like that stink!
2006-10-02 12:39:06 · answer #3 · answered by stimply 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just sounds like she's trying to keep up with you and doesn't want to be left out. A little nuts too.
2006-10-02 12:33:53 · answer #4 · answered by missgigglebunny 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She has serious issues. I would say she needs to get some self esteem and learn to love herself.
2006-10-02 12:34:24 · answer #5 · answered by Me luv u long time 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your friend needs help. And no, I don't have any friends like that (thank God).
2006-10-02 12:35:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Way to confusing! Maybe you should try again or something!
2006-10-02 12:37:39 · answer #7 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sorry, no friends like that in my little world, but do wonder, why your so much in her bussiness, who's living through who anyway
2006-10-02 12:39:32 · answer #8 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are her screws in tight enough in her brain?
2006-10-02 12:33:58 · answer #9 · answered by leilis4 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're too much into her business. consentrate on your own life and let her screw her's up all by herself.
2006-10-02 12:34:28 · answer #10 · answered by ashley f 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋