Did you do your thank you notes?

Question

We got married about 3 years ago and never did our wedding thank you notes. (Sent out the shower ones.)

I know by etiquette rules, they should go out. But also know from past experience that I get about 1 thank you note per every 3 or 4 weddings I go to.

How are you with your thank you notes? (weddings, graduations, anniversarys, etc.)

Answer 1

For out of the blue gifts, I hand deliver thank you notes. For birthdays, christmas, weddings, showers, etc, I always mail out thank yous within a week. Even after delivering a baby, I got out thank yous in a week. I think sending out heartfelt thank you cards is becoming a lost art. I wish more people would do it.

Answer 2

I did mine for high school grad. I hated it. Plus I weren't really care if anybody sent me a thank-u note so I think there a waste of paper and time.
I only signed mine but did the rest on the computer. It saved time.

Answer 3

If you gave me a gift in January, your thank you note would come the next year.

Answer 4

its a tradition that is falling by the way side, a tad to late for you mail them out now, but next time, baby shower or something, do you best to send them out

Answer 5

absolutely write thank you notes even if others don't but then i was raised in a differant polite courteous social class that reflects this unlike today people

Answer 6

Never do them, never expect them. Save a tree. I thank in person.

Answer 7

I think it's a waste of paper

Answer 8

Always send mine out like a week later and personalize them (ex. thanks for the toaster, sheets, etc.)

Answer 9

I have never done them...ooopps... lol