2006-10-02 05:23:07 · 13 answers · asked by mess110 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
well... we were both really mad. i was because she was overly possesive and she was because i was mad. I didn't exactly break up with her.. it was a common ground when we were really mad...
2006-10-02 05:33:13 · update #1
You broke up with her, right? Why? Did you try to get back with her and then she said "wait?"
In my experience when a couple takes a break, whoever started it, if one person is saying "let's wait a while" or "let's try to pick it up later on," this is a manipulative statement that makes you feel like a "back-up plan". Loosely translated, "wait" means "I don't want to be with you, so I'm going to go out and try to find someone better. If I can't find anyone else, I'll come back to you, so hang around and be available for me if I want you back."
You deserve better. Let it go, grieve, and move on.
2006-10-02 05:27:06 · answer #1 · answered by LisaT 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you broke up with her because she was overly possesive, she is still going to be possesive when you get back with her. even if you miss her you might want to consider if you'll be able to put up with her possesiveness if you get back with her, then you don't have the right to be mad at her then, because you already knew that she was possesive. your best bet is to look for someone else, or accept her the way she is, because most of the time you cannot change people like that.
2006-10-02 14:39:30 · answer #2 · answered by Halal Pig Ok in Islam 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GOOD shes making ya wait! Why did you break up with her! Was it for another girl? I mean every relationship has its up and downs! You should of realized that when you let her go there was a chance that she might not be available are around for you to try and sweep her off her feet. You can just dump and chick and expect her back, duh
It depends on the matter, well the resons for breaking it off like mentioned above if it was for another womem. Id say no! But if it was for a good reson like fighting to much, 50/50 are use even wroth it?
2006-10-02 12:30:06 · answer #3 · answered by princesbubbleyum 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay i just went through the same thing with my daughter and her boyfriend in Feb. I was in Michigan(10 hours away) and she called me saying she wanted to break up with him. I told her that maybe they just needed sometime apart because they were together ALL THE TIME! But to do what she felt like she needed to do in her heart. Well when I got back from my trip 2 days later come to find out she had broke up with him. He was crushed and 3 weeks later she came home crying saying that she missed him and wanted to be back with him. She called and they talked a few times and ended up back together because they R IN LOVE! Don't give up, but don't wait around forever too. If you really love her and miss her PROVE IT TO HER! Send her flowers, call her and tell her how m uch she means to you. Go out of ur way to win her back. BUT if she keeps turning you down then MOVE ON! AND for heavens sake if you do get her back don't break her heart again! Good luck and GOD BLESS
2006-10-02 12:45:12 · answer #4 · answered by ilove_arbonne3 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
0 chances sir. I'm sorry to report that she is now a woman scorned and if you ever get her back, it will never be the same. When all your trust is out the door, she won't want you anymore. You can cry a river, till an ocean starts to form; but she will always remember...
2006-10-02 12:28:59 · answer #5 · answered by Sean B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need time for yourself and herself to figure things out. The hardest thing to do in a relationship is to not be reactive, but be more proactive. Anger and pride will never allow you to see the message. If you need to get a message across, email would be best so you don't say anything out of emotions and give her time to process it. Its okay to argue, but its not okay if you don't learn anything from it.
2006-10-02 12:42:36 · answer #6 · answered by Need Answers 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the chances are a 50/50 if she really cares for you and if its meant to be then will it will happen in God's own time. just be patient and wait this gives you time for reflection and what you need to do be a better boyfriend. find a hobby, hang out with friends. you had friends before her and you still have your friends with her (hopefully)
2006-10-02 12:29:33 · answer #7 · answered by carypratt 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait usually means ,"Nice knowing you".time will heal and then you are going to look back at this and laugh.
2006-10-02 12:28:38 · answer #8 · answered by twogirls0306 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suggest that you need to find another girl since you are the one that broke up with her...
2006-10-02 12:27:27 · answer #9 · answered by Symbolic User 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
too many factors. Why did you break up? do you want another chance? Then- next time dont break up.
2006-10-02 12:25:45 · answer #10 · answered by tbaby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋