he verbal abuse me he tell me his heart is with me and he is living with another girl. also he can only be seen with me just at night time. this is killing me inside because he can do everything with her and treat her nice. but he can not do the same for me. can some tell me why is he hurting me
2006-10-02 05:09:15 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Because he is a jerk. Do not let him do this to you honey i know it is hard because you have feelings for him but let him go honey i promise he is not worth it. It hurts yes i know i have been with a broken heart before but the old saying is so true. Time will heal. He does this for his own shelfish reasons darling he feels that he has power so to speak over you and he enjoys it at your pain. Drop him now the hurt will heal
2006-10-02 05:14:35 · answer #1 · answered by just divorced 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He does this because he's an @$$hol3 sweety. Plain and simple. He has no respect for you, and has some kind of superiority complex where he thinks that he can do nothing wrong.
He probably has a gargantuan ego and is arrogant to boot. Staying in this situation is ONLY going to cause you ongoing, consistent pain. He apparently sees that there are no repercussions for his actions, meaning that you just sit back and take it, so he will keep doing it.
Make the decision to leave him and do it now. I wouldn't even bother to tell him about it unless there are personal belongings that you need to get. If so, pretend that everything is a-ok, and then get your things when you can, but after that, just never speak to him again. He doesn't deserve the respect of letting him know how you feel, or what you're doing or even why you're doing it. He deserves to have someone kick him square in the nuts.
So....I'm very sorry that you're hurting. I've been there, with someone that is abusive and a flat-out @s$hole, except she didn't sleep with anyone I don't think, but nevertheless she's as close to your situation as I have experience with. Heal yourself.....you will be much better off and happy....trust me. Don't be bitter and just go hang out with your friends and eventually you will meet someone that will treat you nicely!
2006-10-02 12:26:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need some self respect and esteem! Why do you want this loser??? Do not allow him to come and see you at night or any other time!! Be happy with who you are and drop this loser from your head. Know that you are an OK person with or without someone. When you are being abused in ANY way, you need to walk away from the situation, honey. Believe in yourself that you are strong enough to be OK on your own!! Good luck!!
2006-10-02 12:12:11 · answer #3 · answered by daj11551 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK you NEED to break up with this dude. He is cheating on you! You should have known to break up with him when he started living with the other girl!! PLEASE don't go through this any longer. Tell him that he has to treat you better, or it is over. And if he really cares about you.. He will. And telling you his heart is with you, but he is living with another girl. What kind of bull**** is that? Yea BREAK UP NOW!!!!! Good Luck!!! :)
Hope the next boy treats you better.
2006-10-02 12:13:04 · answer #4 · answered by Kay 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If a man loves you .. he wont do anything to hurt you.. Maybe this guy only wants you for what you have between your legs ( No offense ) But that is just the way it is with some men.
My advice to you is.. Look for a guy that appreciates you.. If he cares about you or loves you... he will do anything to be with you all the time.. not just at night.
2006-10-02 12:18:43 · answer #5 · answered by Jaelie Giselle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy sounds like a real piece of crap. You may feel sad for a time, but you will get over him. You deserve better.
2006-10-02 12:13:10 · answer #6 · answered by bc.grown 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
baby girl, he's using you. don't listen to what he says. it sounds like he's keeping you on the side and there is no good future can come out from it. you deserve better than is, there are lots of guys out there. so, go out and have fun.
2006-10-02 12:13:31 · answer #7 · answered by harmony 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bobo head.....he does not love you..Are you having sex with him. If so, that's all he wants from you. Drop his *ss like a hot potato. If you put a picture up, you find someone that really wants to be with you.
2006-10-02 12:15:00 · answer #8 · answered by dd 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i honestly believe that its not him that hurts you , but you hurt yourself with no reason.why do you still want to be with this person?try to find something else and give it a chance...love treats with love...and true love is always good for you...let go...
2006-10-02 12:44:15 · answer #9 · answered by bracer402006 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what are you doing in that type of relationship.He don't want anything more of you,he's playing you,and it's up to you to break it off.I'm sure you want someone who will respect you,love and take you out not at nights only but at day,even welcome you into his home introduce you to family and friends.Get out dump him it would not hurt him any more that it's hurting you.think wisely.
2006-10-02 12:18:32 · answer #10 · answered by leah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋