On Friday night my man and I were wrestling around at his house. He ended up pinning me to the floor with his arm wrapped around my neck. As soon as i felt him tighten up around my neck THIS CHILL RAN DOWN MY BACK!. like if somehow it turned me on... WELL GUESS WHAT?....( IT DID )....and he noticed it right away!...later on that night as we were getting BUSY!...he had this look on his face.... so i didnt pay attention... WELL as we were getting deeper and deeper into the ACT!.. he grabbed me by the neck and started choking me!.... (((((((((((( I LOVED IT ))))))))))..... its like if i was in my own little world..FUNNY I KNOW!....so my question is, Is that a bad thing???...i mean after we talked about it and he said he was a little afraid...that things would go wrong!...I think he LOVED the idea but i dont know if thats bad?....should we not do that again?? HELP!!
2006-10-02 04:55:05 · 11 answers · asked by He's my Sunshine 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I always say there is a very fine line between pleasure and pain, I myself like to walk that line. Some people just get into it more than others. You should come up with a safety, something you both agree on that will be your signal if things are getting out of hand and if you give that signal then everything is to stop immediatly. If you're into being choked you can always just let him know if its going to far you're going to tap out. Two taps on his shoulder and he must stop. No if's and's or but's about it. With other things a safety word/phrase usually works best.
2006-10-02 05:05:06 · answer #1 · answered by Red 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Your guy is right. You could be end not just the thrilling but dead as well. Get some help from some counselor. You need to know what is can do & what's don't do. It's your life at stake. Think twice before you ever wanted to try again.
2006-10-02 12:02:56 · answer #2 · answered by CM C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is not uncommon, but it can be very dangerous. You two need to work out a very obvious and unmistakeable non-verbal code/signal and a verbal code/signal that indicates that one of you wants/needs to stop. It would be a good idea to take CPR lessons before getting too involved in erotic asphyxiation, just to help make sure you know what to do if something were to happen. Be very careful. People have died doing things like this and it is not a joke, but it is something that people do.
2006-10-02 12:01:36 · answer #3 · answered by Vet Tech Steph 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Definitely bad. Cuz what if he got over excited or something and snapped your neck? That would be so freaking horrible, and he could go to jail for murdering you.
2006-10-02 12:24:04 · answer #4 · answered by Bloody Kisses 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think there is anything wrong with what you are doing. But on the other hand it could get out of control. Just be careful.
2006-10-02 11:57:57 · answer #5 · answered by Janine 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you do as you wish as long as you are both consenting adults then there is no problem
but be careful you dont go to far
2006-10-02 12:06:08 · answer #6 · answered by JAMES OY 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
This is called sexual asphyxiation and its dangerous!!!
You really need to read the links below!!!!
2006-10-02 12:08:09 · answer #7 · answered by .... 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
honey i completly understand you loveing to be choked cause i do to tell him there is nothing wrong with it ok and if you want him to tell him to keep doning it
2006-10-02 12:04:46 · answer #8 · answered by chica 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
wow, thats quite interesting. Well, as long as he doesn't end up as a murderer, and doesn't want to harm you. Its alright.
2006-10-02 12:04:15 · answer #9 · answered by exxohh<3 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
As long as you both agree and he does not hurt you, do whatever you want.
2006-10-02 11:58:53 · answer #10 · answered by daj11551 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋