my dad is comin home from iraq and i hate him after wat he did 2 me when he was in the us and now he is comin home please tell me wat 2 do and he mean he calls me stupid and once he gave me a black eye and i dont want that 2 happen again
2006-10-02 04:52:29 · 12 answers · asked by xxholistergurlxx 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Danielle,
You need to understand that you have legal and personal rights as a human being, and you need to ascert them.
When you Dad comes home, I think you should hand him a letter, one that you wrote telling him about YOUR side of the previous abuse, how it felt to be you, what it's like to be scared of your father, the black eye, the name calling.
In the second half of the letter, tell him that you WILL fight back this time, if anything like that occurs again, tell him you know your options, school counselors, DSS, the police, let him know that you are a capable, resourceful girl and not someone to play with. This will not only raise his respect for you but it will let him know that there will be real consequences for his actions.
Also, just a side note, try to get his Army commanders, or NCO's name and number, and call them first if anything happens. Having been in the Army for a decade I can tell you that NOTHING stops abuse on children like the US Army. They will have him picking up peables and mowing grass with a pair of scissors on the first indication that he is abusing you. These NCO's, and Commanders are a real resource for you. Use them.
2006-10-02 04:59:04 · answer #1 · answered by magerious 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
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2016-10-18 08:43:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call the Family Advocacy Program for the Base he is stationed in at home. First call the info line for the base then ask for the Family Advocacy number, call it and report it. It will give you dad some help in anger management issues.
2006-10-02 04:56:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
honey, u need to report him,that is a form of abuse...he may be doing this b/c of all the things he has seen in Iraq gets to his head and he will never forget the trauma of seeing people die and such...but that is not an excuse to bring it out on u! Either talk to him about it, or someone else mature about it or u definitely need to go to the police!
2006-10-02 04:56:38 · answer #4 · answered by hot_mama 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Does your mom know he hits you? Do you have a favorite teacher you can tell. You need to tell this to someone who can help you.
Can you find the phone number of the child protection agency? Tell many people. Someone will help you. I'm sorry your dad hits you.
Nancy
2006-10-02 05:31:45 · answer #5 · answered by nancymomkids 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Dress in a Hijab.. Wen he shows up say "Salaal Alaekum".....
Wen you guys finish the meal look up and say " May Allah shower blessings on this house and may bring the fires of hell on the infidels"
2006-10-02 04:58:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Report him to authorities.
2006-10-02 04:54:01 · answer #7 · answered by chrstnwrtr 7 · 3⤊ 1⤋
are you under 18? tell someone about it fast
over 18? don't go anyplaces he goes
2006-10-02 04:54:37 · answer #8 · answered by chastityelizabeth 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Listen kiddo, I am a veitnam vet. Love him, hold on to him, be there for him. Love him
2006-10-02 04:54:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 2⤋
dont let him get away with that cr ap. contact child services.
2006-10-02 04:55:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋