It was hard to get over what i did in the past as a kid. I am ALMOST over it i think. I was just wondering what all of you have done in the past as a kid. What i did was when they were sleeping. I got on top of 1 which was younger and I might of humped ( i don't know how old but i was under 10) and then when i was still younger, i put my chest in my little cousin's face who was alot younger. I realize it's normal but i still feel bad so will you guys tell me what you did as a kid like this like doing sexual things while someone didn't know or was sleeping and they were younger or if someone you know did it. I know i posted this in the wrong spot. Sorry! Thanks. You guys helped last time. I'm almost over it. YAY. I am sick of rude people on here though. I was a child! stop saying i was a whore or pedofile. A CHILD you idiots to the ones who said that. So this question is for the MATURE people! Thanks.
2006-10-02 04:51:50 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Oh Jess, this is just normal for kids to explore sexual feelings. Don't feel bad as long as you would not do it as an adult. Kids explore there bodies and other children's bodies and that is just the way it is. The innocence of a child.
2006-10-02 06:41:34 · answer #1 · answered by Joy 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You say that what you did was normal... it's not. Though I wouldn't say you were a pedophile, there is definitely something wrong. And you know that it is wrong or there wouldn't be anything for you to "get over". Most of the time when a child does something like this to a younger child, it is because they themselves have been sexually abused. Have you talked to a therapist about what happened? If not, I strongly suggest that you do, and then you may finally be able to heal.
2006-10-02 05:03:01 · answer #2 · answered by MELISSA B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My cousing tried to kiss me behind the shed once... I broke his nose with a broom handle. I personally have never tried to sexually harm anyone younger than myself... and I was both raped and molested as a child.
Unless whipping my husband in the *** with a riding crop counts? He is younger so...
People that do things like that, are compelled... It doesn't just happen naturally. Human beings are not that far from apes in that most of what we learn as adolescents... was something we OBSERVED in someone else first.
Someone wasn't very responsable with you either were they?
All sex offenders were sexually molested FIRST. It is a fact!
Glad that you realize it and did not internalize it in any other way BUT guilt... Guilt is good honey. It is when you feel that rage that will never be satiated in any way other than to do it to someone else as a rational adult, to show the world how you feel inside... that is bad. It is a decision one makes that their soul seldom recovers from in leiu of ever being a normal person again.
You're doing good in feeling responsable and your guilt is merited.
YOU SHOULD FEEL GUILT! It is the correct responce in a normal healthy psyche... means you're okay!
Just don't kick yourself in the as*s for something that happened when you were 10. Kids repeat what they learn... Figure out who hurt you first? and make sure your cousins are okay and not damaged. You DO have a responsability to correct that mistake you know... as uncomfortable as it may be, it will heal all involved and could very well stop the entire process in its tracks!
That kind of sh*it has to be weeded out of a family carefully or it will go on forever... nice to see you taking the first steps!
2006-10-02 05:00:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Children have a nature to explore and that is what most children do - explore. It is not unnatural for children to explore sexually because it is like a new toy to them. Get over it and move forward - it was in the past and it was a form of exploration. Just don't do it now that you understand it. Children don't understand this behavior but adults do. Thank you for your question.
2006-10-02 04:59:51 · answer #4 · answered by BrowBrat 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
you were a kid you didn't know,maybe you saw it on TV or some people doing it and you wanted to be like them.It's same like hearing the kid swearing,kid hears people say F words and thinks that's the way to talk.Now you know you kind of humped the younger one but by then you didn't it was just something funny to you,don't worry about it.Lot of people did the same thing although they would never admit it.
2006-10-02 05:37:24 · answer #5 · answered by Inuyasha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you were probably exposed to stuff (or adults) that children shouldn't be. as a 10yr old, you do not really know right from wrong yet. it is better to just bury it unless there is something deeper to be dealt with. the great thing is you do not have to let your childhood dictate who you are today or who you will become in the future. if you think you really have problems, please try to talk to a shrink. there may be free services in your community.
2006-10-02 05:00:43 · answer #6 · answered by mom is a freak 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ah i dont get it
2006-10-02 04:57:15 · answer #7 · answered by Duane G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋