What The hell would you do if you got off from work after a long hard day....looking forward to seeing you smiling wife's face....get some chinese takeout and watch a good movie that night...Surprise her because she expects you to get home late....But you walk in the door...look around no one....car is outside....so you walk around...maybe gonna sneak up on her....you get closer to the bed room and you hear a muffled moan....maybe she is?? I don't know you think....so you crack the door to your bedroom and peep in to see...YOUR FU CKIN WIFE IS SCREWING SOME OTHER GUY AND HAVING A GREAT FU CKING TIME!! Worst time of my Got Da Mn Life...and just the other day we where talking about having kids...yeah right. I almost Killed the Man she was with...he didn't press charges because he knew he was wrong... haven't spoken to my WIFE in 2 weeks and everytime I look at her I am disgusted...I hear her crying alot but it doesn't phase me because she wasn't think about that when she was suck stick!!
2006-10-02 04:46:05 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
get rid of her!!
2006-10-02 04:53:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
What your feelings is your male instinct. Your mind can't believe that she could enjoy or moan over another man. You still love her, but your genetic protection program is in overdrive. This is much like dealing with death except the person dies everyday and you have to live it everyday so it lasts longer. You do need time, because time helps the program dissipate. But what the real problem is will you feel like this could happen again? Which should NOT be answered yet. Take some time. Tell her that, and maybe talk on the phone with her about your feelings and your instincts. And if theres something you can really do to help yourself is READ. The more you understand your mind and how it works in this situation, the faster you will be able to heal. Understand the chemicals and biological responses. You will heal, given time and being good to yourself.
2006-10-02 11:57:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm very sorry to hear that man. I know exactly how much it sucks, especially right now since it's only been a little while. Forget about her crying and you're right, she wasn't thinking about that before. For whatever reason it happened, can you forgive and forget? Can you continue your relationship with your wife after this? What worked for me was separating for a few months and I came to the conclusion that I couldn't go back. Move on with your life man, don't let it consume you. Give yourself credit because she WILL hurt and regret everything and she WILL realize how much she F****D up but by then, you'll be on your way with a better life. Hang in there man, I know it sucks, but hang in there.
2006-10-02 11:57:34 · answer #3 · answered by coolguy 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Obviously your wife has made a huge mistake and all. But afterall, everyone makes mistakes. I think you should give her a chance. If you look at it in her perspective, having a husband that always comes home late at night, and can hardly get to see him, maybe she just wanted something more. You should talk to her about the situation. Ask her "Why?" Communication is the key, don't just try to ignore the problem. You should ask yourself "Am I still in love with her? Am I happy being in this relationship?" If the answer is no, you should have a divorce. Because if your both not happy, you should waste your life on being unhappy all the time.
2006-10-02 12:11:30 · answer #4 · answered by exxohh<3 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Wow i am so sorry this happened to u that has to be the worst way to find the woman or man who is supposed to love u and u love , sounds like u need a good divorce attorney or a great councelor. That is if u even want to stay with her. In your bed ? how long has this been going on ? where did she meet him ? all questions i am sure u have screamed at the top of ur lungs already Good luck to u . I wish u the best .
2006-10-02 11:50:56 · answer #5 · answered by ~~*Brownie*~~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her when she's planning on moving out as you need to move your beer in. Good, honest beer that will always be there for you. Great tasting, loyal beer. Be prepared for any argument she may throw back at you: using her weight calculate exactly how much beer space she’d take up at any given moment and explain to her clearly (using a power point presentation would be ideal for this) all the reasons why sacrificing that amount of beer for her would be unacceptable – perhaps even madness. I'd also ask her to 'get over it' and stop crying as soon as possible as you're planning on enjoying yourself with your new beer, and, quite frankly she's depressing you. Perhaps you should even be helpful by getting the number of the guy so you can call him to pick up her bags. Just as she's leaving don’t forget to ask her for the number of the local escort agency.....
2006-10-02 12:33:38 · answer #6 · answered by lindowicker 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LEAVE HER!!!!!!!!! she is not worth it. Take a day off when she leaves to go to work You call and turn off All of the utilities. Have a moving van ready to move all of your belong to you NEW home pack her stuff to send it to good will to help out those less fortunate, Go to the bank change your account number or close the account and move to a new bank, cancel her credit cards,
I forgot to tell you empty the ice trays too also toilet paper to show you mean business. Then at the end of the day when she comes home if her car is in your name have the REPO man waiting to take it. The REPO man can also be a delivery man to give her a message. You thought you fu cked over me but I fu cked over you
2006-10-02 12:19:44 · answer #7 · answered by Htnspyc 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is a very bad thing to experience though, but l think not talking to your wife for two weeks is not the answer to your problem. i think you two need to really talk about it. ask her why she did what she did and also if you haven't been satisfying her sexually in your relationship. If she is a full time house wife, maybe she is kind of bored and probably walked herself into such temptation. Don't toss her off If you really love her, try to iron out things because sometimes you do some crazy things and wish it never happened. Do ask yourself too if you've been treating her well. I wish you luck.
2006-10-02 12:07:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Can't you see that your wife is sorry. Sorry that she got caught. Too bad you didn't get any photos. They'd really be handy in court.
Can't blame you for beating the guy's @$$. If it was me I would've beaten them both. It takes two to tango. Can't really blame the guy too much, all he wanted was some pu$$y. But then again, he evidently knew that she was married and an @$$ beating is just ONE of the risk if you indulge in such behavior. Was this guy an unknown or a friend?
You need to get the fcuk out of that relationship, and FAST!
I could never kiss those lips again, knowing (and seeing) where they've been. Good luck bro.
2006-10-02 13:03:40 · answer #9 · answered by Larry F 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You feel right now that you could eat glass and nails and it would not bother you.That happend to me back in 1979 and I was so mad that I took my gun and looked for the guy good thing for me that I did not find him because I would be in jail to this day.But I did find him one day when I did not have my gun.I had a axe handle and I put him in the hospital he did not file charges ether I told him that I would kill him if he did.To make along story short I forgave my wife because I saw my falts that was 28 years ago I forgave her but it takes longer to forget.
2006-10-02 13:07:36 · answer #10 · answered by Cherokee indian 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm very sorry that you went throught hat, man; that's one of the toughest experiences a man can live through.
I suggest you think hard about whether or not you can live with her from now on, and talk with her, without anger, on what resolution you can agree on - especially if there are any kids involved. Needless to say, she owes you months of sexual servitude to make up for this, but if you can't forgive her at all, you need to move on with a clean break.
How you conduct yourself right now is a direct reflection of your character; don't let yourself down.
good luck.
2006-10-02 11:53:36 · answer #11 · answered by drumrb0y 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋