I got out of a relationship and jumped in to one with this guy while I was in school. However, I messed things up and went back to my ex-boyfriend which didnt work out. i know that this guy is my soul-mate but he lives in another state. I used to dream about him all the time while I was with my ex, plus we had alot in common and just connected very well. but i was scared of being with someone new. now i want to try something again but hes in another state. he doesnt know how i feel and i rarely talk to him. i need help!
2006-10-02 04:32:29 · 11 answers · asked by Tash 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If you feel this strong connection,rekindling the relationship is appropriate.My girlfriend(whom I love very much) lives in another state 170 miles away.I used to live near her,but I moved and she's settled where she is.Because of our collective past experiences we make it work.The distance only makes it difficult for us th see one another.It has no negative effect on the relationship.It probably only makes it stronger.Think about it and talk to him if you feel you should.That type of person seemingly only comes around once in a lifetime.Provided you trust one another to be faithful the distance should never be an issue.
2006-10-02 04:39:13 · answer #1 · answered by joecseko 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl... Unless you have to options of moving closer to be with him. I say move on with YOUR life. If you two are meant to work things out, somehow it will happen. But if you dont have the means to get to the other state, then let it go. One thing I do want to say tho is that You said you went back to your ex... Never go back, always go forward. There was a reason you two didnt work out the first time. I have never gone backwords and its made my life so much fuller and Im very happy because of it. Good luck
2006-10-02 04:35:06 · answer #2 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You have to just tell him. I have been married to my soul mate for 13 years now. You can't miss the chance. If you don't tell him now how you feel you may never get the chance. Tell him how sorry you are and explain why you did what you did. Him he really is a good guy he will atleast listen. It may not go any further but you will never know if you don't go for it.
2006-10-02 04:36:38 · answer #3 · answered by copswife93 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you find the right one don't give up. Dont find yourself in a loveless marriage or relationship. Call him just to see how he is doing. Then start making more calls. After a while then tell him how you still feel. Don't just call him up out of the blue and drop it on him. As far as the distance if you love him and he loves you, you'll make it work.
2006-10-02 04:39:43 · answer #4 · answered by momof3 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well if you want your man your gonna have to send him a letter, email, or something to let him know! You dont want some ho pining after him. Dont miss this opportunity to go tell him you never do know he might feel the same way about you also! Good Luck!
2006-10-02 04:34:23 · answer #5 · answered by . 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why dont you just talk to him for a while. keep in touch with him and try and become really close
when you feel that the time is right, say that you still have really strong feelings for him and that you made a huge mistake when you ended it. if he feels the same way, it will work itself out
2006-10-02 04:35:11 · answer #6 · answered by letsx3dance 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him. Put your heart on the line and take a chance.
2006-10-02 04:39:16 · answer #7 · answered by S K 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are posting quetsion on Internet and afraid that he lives in another state ?? Simple...........write him an email or call him..
2006-10-02 04:35:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can delcare your feelings for him, but do you really expect him to trust you now?
2006-10-02 04:36:12 · answer #9 · answered by JC 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i will tell you one thing
just ask your heart
you will find the answer
2006-10-02 04:41:42 · answer #10 · answered by ahmedgarhy84 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋