i'm only 15 teenadn i'm pregnet and i have not told my parnets
2006-10-02 04:25:32 · 26 answers · asked by Shamika S 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
You really need to talk to your parents..that is first and for most..they will probably be very up set at first but they will get over it they have no choice but to get over it. You cant do this on your own.Please speak to them. If you are afraid to tell them leave them a note or talk to a family member and have them tell them. You need to be seen at the doctors office as soon as possible..please dont be afraid of your parents. A lot of teen mothers make the mistake of not telling their parents and that gets them in trouble in the long run..God Bless you and good luck.
2006-10-02 04:31:50 · answer #1 · answered by bllnickie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i feel bad for you. i am pregnant and 22 yrs old in college going off to grad school and my mom was pretty upset about me being pregnant even though i am old enough and have been on my own since 17. the best thing is to tell your parents and they will be heartbroken and disappointed, they may even become very strict on you in the future. but you need to weigh your options while you still have some. babies are a blessing and not everyone have the ability to bear children. however, you are only 15 years old and i am sure you know absolutely nothing about raising a child because i am 22 and with this being my first i am still learning, reading books, magazines and taking advice from already mothers. whatever your final decision may be with your current situation, i hope you learn from it and are more careful in the future. taking care of a kid is a full time job and you will have no life after the baby comes. also unprotective sex is not worth all the complications that may follow. you may be pregnant now but what if you ended up with HIV. you must think before you act. do not engage into anything unless you are 100% ready for the consequences that follows. i know mistakes happen but in life you have to be more careful. every action has a reaction followed by consequences. good luck to you in the future and with whatever decision you make.
2006-10-02 11:26:54 · answer #2 · answered by HunnyMommy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Without knowing your parents, it's hard to answer this question. I mean if they're abusive or something, then you might want to go to a school counselor or someone else 1st. However, if they're very loving parents who have always had your best interests at heart, go to them and be honest with them. Depending on how many people know, word travels fast and if they find out from someone else, it will become more than an issue of keeping secrets ... it will come down to whether they will be able to trust you again.
The last thing a parent wants is a teenage daughter as a mother. But even more than that, they don't want one out there that feels like she's all alone in the world.
I hope you believe in God...because you WILL need Him... real soon.
2006-10-02 11:31:46 · answer #3 · answered by The Mover 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Try to tell your parents, They'll be upset but will get over it. Is the father supportive? Is he older and can work to maintain the baby? Don't have an abortion bring your baby. You can give it up for adoption or keep it and work and take care of it. Having a baby is a joy, maybe in your situation it's kind of ruff, but when the baby comes you will feel different. Be strong, rest in bed, don't do anything crazy to harm urself nor the baby.talk to a counselor at your school or at a clinic.
2006-10-02 11:46:39 · answer #4 · answered by brazilian women 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jesus Christ gal!!!!!!!!!wow!!!!!!!! 15 years old??? Never heard about comdoms?! Coat rain?! Umbrella?!......ok... sorry dat was my first reaction, sorry , sorry. Ok , in ur shoes i'll talk with my parents. I know it's not easy, but girl dat's d best u can do now. U already know how they are going o reac, and i know u don't want to face that. But let me tell u something THEY LOVE YOU much more than any other best friend u have. Talk to them, cry with them, scream with them and then solve d problem with them. Right now there's nobody else better than them to support u, and u can b sure they will support u witrh d same love like they always do. Babygirl talk to ur parents and u konw what: having a baby it's not d end of d world i know it's not what u wanted, u are 2 young, but if u were smart from now on it wouldn't b d end of ur world. Babygirl talk to ur parents. Be wise. Lots of kisses for u
2006-10-02 11:46:19 · answer #5 · answered by LovelyPortuguese 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your parents. Suck it up and take responsibility for your actions. The rest is truly up to you. You have the 3 main options, abotion, adoption or raising your child. If it were me, I would raise that baby because it's the right thing to do. However, I don't know your situation so all I can say is that you should be brave and do what feels right in your heart. You are the one who will have to live with whatever decision you make.
2006-10-02 11:28:30 · answer #6 · answered by Dr. Kat 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
WOW, 15 and pregnant...What were you really thinking. Tell your parents so that you can get the prenatal care that the baby deserves. Your parents will be mad at first, but in time they will come around and help you with what you need. Right now you are going to need your parents to help you get through this on your own, but whatever you do DO NOT GET AN ABORTION!
2006-10-02 11:27:55 · answer #7 · answered by DO IT! 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
thats sad that someone gave her a thumbs down because she's 15. blah!
sweetheart, talk to your parents so that you can start getting your prenatal care and discuss your options. have u thought about what you want to do? keep the baby? adoption? abortion? i dont agree with the latter, but it is YOUR choice. only ur parents can help u right now. good luck to u and i'll remember u in my prayers. it will all work out in the end.
2006-10-02 11:30:01 · answer #8 · answered by Ms. Meli 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, there are really only two choices.
Be unhappy: Look at the new life inside you as being a curse or bad thing...and go forward into your life with negativity making the rest of your life's experiences bad.
Be happy: Look at the new life inside you as a blessing and responsibility whereas you can share the most love you could ever give another living being as a "Mommy."
I choose the later option.
Question is, which do you choose?
2006-10-02 11:29:30 · answer #9 · answered by Robert 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Shamika,,listen honey its not the end ot the world,,u have to tell ur parents now,,its not like they can beat the baby out of u,,i been working with young girls for 12 years and i love doing it,,u need to go to someone,,is it easier going to ur aunt r ur grand mother r an adult that u can trust and they can go with u to ur parents,,,u have to find an adult that u can trust,,,i would of rather u go to ur mother and talk to her because i have 4 girls and i know how i would feel if they went to somebody else first instead of me but if u just can't go to an adult,,,ok good luck
2006-10-02 11:48:19 · answer #10 · answered by Sweetpea 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋