Last night My boyriend was watching tv and his son and I were playing with a ball and every now and then I would throw the ball and him (my boyfriend) but this time when I threw it, it hit him right in the balls, yeah i was kinda aiming for that general area but i never can hit dead on shots like that, Well he got so mad he threw his phone at me, I dodged it but I was so mad that he threw his phone at me I havent spoke to him since. Guys it was a little nerf ball the sponge kind and I didnt even throw it that hard but I was pissed because he use to play profes. baseball and was a pitcher so he was definetly capable of hitting me, should I be mad or apologize or what.
2006-10-02 03:36:59 · 19 answers · asked by ask me again 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
First of all, NICE SHOT! Sounds like he got what he deserved. You could have hit him in the balls with a real baseball and that still IS NO EXCUSE TO THROW SOMETHING AT A WOMAN! The ONLY time it is acceptable for a man to strike a woman is WHEN HIS LIFE IS IN DANGER! He is a bum...it also sounds like he might be on steroids. The quick mood swing and the anger. You mentioned that he used to play professional baseball, did he play for the Astros? That would explain why he missed you when he threw his phone at you. Those guys suck! Go Cards!
2006-10-02 03:42:49 · answer #1 · answered by denverbroncos1973 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well - if he was a prof baseball and was a pitcher, if he'd wanted to hit you, you wouldn't have been able to "dodge" the phone. With that said, it sounds like an over-reaction on his part. A phone is a lot harder than a nerf ball or whatever and I'm assuming you're a girl so throwing things at girls isn't cool to begin with. Something else is going on here - I've been hit in the balls many times and it hurts like a ************, but i didn't try to hurt my girlfriend over it....watch out!
2006-10-02 03:42:20 · answer #2 · answered by amulkerin2002 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you should both be mad and apologize. It may/may not have hurt him, but the difference between a nerf ball and a phone is alot. I'd leave him before the next time when the phone actually hits you. He definitely has some anger issues. But the other people were right that if he was capable of hitting you, he could've.
2006-10-02 03:47:50 · answer #3 · answered by Rex 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Whoa, kiddo, you have got a budding problem on your hands. If this guy hucks a phone at you because his boys were hit by a nerfball, there's an abusive situation looming. What's next? You acciedentally spill ice cream on his leg and he takes an axe or baseball bat to your skiull? If you don't think that scenario is possible, there are plenty of women who have seen that type of behavior firsthand, and some of those women even lived to tell the tale. Get out now.
2006-10-02 03:54:18 · answer #4 · answered by The Mystic One 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all balls are not meant to be played inside the house,second why u play a silly game in the house try some video game for a change,and both of u should settle down and opologize to each other,u for hitting him on his balls lol,and he for throwing the phone at u,god u look like a bunch of kids to me and u did that while his son was at the house,how old r u 2 seriously.u need to grow up and mature.
2006-10-02 03:56:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u be mad! no f***ing way! he threw a PHONE at u! and he used to be a professional pitcher, thats crazy. id just stay away from him. if u guys do talk say well im sorry that the NERF ball hit u, but dude ur crazy. i would break up with him ASAP and is he keeps trying to call u, take it court. seriously
2006-10-02 03:41:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, I can tell you from experience that you do not have to be hit hard in the balls to cause extreme pain and discomfort. He should not have thrown his phone at you, that is a little over the edge. It is okay to tell him you are sorry for hitting him in the nuts, but he should also apologize for the phone thing and if he is able to set his pride aside he will. It is not worth it to stay mad over this...
2006-10-02 03:43:14 · answer #7 · answered by Suthern R 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it hurts to be hit there so i under stand how he would be Quick to react and throw something but its important for you to tell him you are sorry and that it was truly an accident and that you will be more careful next time and at the same time let him know how you felt when he reacted like that over a accident and go from there good luck hope it all works out in the end
2006-10-02 04:57:48 · answer #8 · answered by kristy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It doesn't take much to drop a man if hit in the right spot. He clearly has some anger issues most guys would drop to the ground and expect you to nurse it better. I think you are in the right to be pissed. Throwing something back is immature and shows his true anger side. Its time to evaluate the retionship and determine if it is the right place for you.
2006-10-02 03:42:04 · answer #9 · answered by Paka 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Even though it was just a soft one, it undoubtedly scared him to death... otherwise he wouldn't have reacted so extremely.
Even though it was obviously an accident, you should apologize... but so should he.
Since he was a professional pitcher and used a phone to throw, he could have caused severe damage to you... he should definitly apologize.
2006-10-02 03:50:53 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋