ok im gonna be totally honest, sometimes it feels like?

Question

everyone likes everyone else more than me, people have more friends than me and people dont even care about me at all.
idk if its true... or do you think it just always seems that way?

Answer 1

I think it sounds as if you are down on yourself & need to look at the thngs you do have in your life & the big mistake is to compare your life to someone else's.Been there & done that & it's a good way to keep yourself depressed if you dwell on that garabge.

Answer 2

When we think negative, we experience negative.
The first thing you can do is look at your physical self and write down what you like and what you want to change. Then take steps to change that, but also, accept what you cannot change. For example, if you would like to slim down a little, go on a exercise and diet plan. Maybe you can join a gym where you will meet others who want to achieve the same you want to achieve---so you not only do something positive for yourself, you also meet other people. Next, accept: for example, if you think that your hands are too large---you can't change it, so just accept it and work with the good you got.
Next, look at your behavior and attitudes, write down what you like, and what you don't like. Then make a plan on how to change the things you don't like. Say, you are shy and would like to change that. So you practice that in the mirror first, then with family---and in time you will be less insecure about approaching others.
Lastly, put yourself a note onto your mirrow in the bathroom which says: "I love who I am". You'll see that every morning when you go into your bathroom--I have done all the above myself and it has helped me to change my physical appearance, to overcome my fear of getting rejected by others, and to love myself.
The crucial point is that we have to love ourself before we can receive and give love to others.....

Answer 3

I am sure it just seems that way, but if it is really bothering you then ask. If you have a person in the "group" that is a little more of a friend than the others talk to her. See if you are being paranoid. If that would be too embarrasing then try to be more outgoing, and throw yourself into the group. Be fun, and they will notice.

Answer 4

Its hard to say but be open and honest with them , dont worry about them being a friend let it go freely,you might be showing a standoffish attitude worrying about it. it sometimes feels that way when its not. As long as your all into the same things but dont start having bad habbits just to fit in .

Answer 5

everyone feels like this at one time or another. You just have to be yourself make new friends and get out in the world, everything will be ok.

Answer 6

What do you care about what everybody else thinks ?
First of all, people do care about you and people do like you - maybe you just crave too much attention.
Maybe your not the most popular, so what ? Is it really that important to you ?
Just be yourself.

Answer 7

Why should it even matter? You be who you want to be, okay? Anyway, it's not the quantity of friends, but the quality that matters. Just be the you that you want to be, and be the the best at it, because that is one thing no one else can do.

Answer 8

No it is true, you are a pathetic self centred individual with an overblown ego and full of your own self importance. Everyone has seen through it and quite frankly despise you for it. Just look at your nickname...enough said? You are destined to be lonely and despised forever unless you realise you are a plain nobody and start being more grateful for any friendship offered. and May God Bless You

Answer 9

u just think that u r having a bad go have a drink tonite and forget it all will change tommorow