When you have a desire for someone and you know you need to let go, what is the best way to do that?
2006-10-02 02:08:58 · 12 answers · asked by wayouthere 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Pray about it. I know that it is hard but you will be given the strength and dignity to do it in a favorable way.
2006-10-02 02:12:03 · answer #1 · answered by roxy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stop all contact with that person.
Fill your days to the max with other things so you won't have time to daydream of him.
If you are married and desire someone else, tell your spouse about your feelings and that you are remaining faithful to your vows. Your spouse will appreciate your truthfulness and perhaps do the same for you if the tables are turned someday.
2006-10-02 09:23:15 · answer #2 · answered by lofolulu 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try and pick up a new hobby or interest. Let's says you want to take up photography. Well if you take a class you'll be surrounded be people that share a common interest and that will make it easier to forgot the person and maybe meet someone else.
2006-10-02 09:14:04 · answer #3 · answered by St.Anger 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its always hard to let go, you have to do things that get your mind off that person. hang out with friends and stay busy, it takes a long time to get over someone we care about. sometimes we never do, but you remember the good times and live your life, dont get stuck in the past. good luck.
2006-10-02 09:15:01 · answer #4 · answered by puertoricout 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The only answer I can think of is to keep busy and try to stay your distance from this person. And if this person is married defiantly leave it be. You didn't say much so I'm not really sure of the circumstances. Good luck.
2006-10-02 09:13:38 · answer #5 · answered by ? 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wish i knew.cos im in that boat... everything rings alarm bells hes married ur married... dont go there..... run runnnnnnnnnnn and yet...........something tingles inside u and u think about him day and night and then u think nah it wont work its not right etc... i actually walked away from somone... and yeah it still hurts.... but i did it.........i think u act then it takes time... how much time i dont bloody know
2006-10-02 09:13:43 · answer #6 · answered by cleo_alter_ego 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Never see them again and do something to occupy your time. Like a hobby.
2006-10-02 09:16:14 · answer #7 · answered by Michelle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ive been ther and it is so hard , i just had to focuse on me take some time for yourself get to know yourself and work on you emotionaly , spirtualy and physicaly and get youself togather while your trying to find somebodynew thats what the time inbetween breakups is for
2006-10-02 09:13:22 · answer #8 · answered by peachypeach746 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
not seeing the person, staying away for good. it takes a while but you WILL get past it.
2006-10-02 09:13:04 · answer #9 · answered by apleasure2u 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Put a new improved model in their place.
2006-10-02 09:11:32 · answer #10 · answered by generationalmixer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋