2006-10-02 02:00:59 · 37 answers · asked by TJ O 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
My wife and I swing. I see other couples as potential fun.
Usually insecure or old-fashioned people disapprove.
2006-10-02 02:05:40 · answer #1 · answered by Highbeam 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well i agree that to each their own and i don,t judge people but
since the question was asked i,ll give my 2 cents, LOL!
I think people who swing are just those who have brain washed
theirselves into believing they are in a happy relationship. With
all the wandering hormones and antics in our days, the chances
that one of the couple is at some point been unfaithful. Instead
of the continueing broken hearts, excepting this and convincing
yourself swinging makes you happy is just a cover-up for the
broken hearts many have had. When you walk down the isle!
you pledge yourself in front of god to your partner and your
partner to you. Third parties are not standing with you, they did
not pledge a damn thing. Sex is a part of any relationship and if
you are not compatible than third parties does not change that
no matter what you,ve convinced yourself of. My thoughts are
have some confidence and some bloody respect for yourself or
others won,t respect you either, lose your self respect and you
lose everything. As long as it doesn,t hurt me however, i,ll join in
and enjoy a married or taken woman but if i eventually marry, my
wife is all i want and she better return that favor or the marriage
will end without fail.
2006-10-02 02:23:45 · answer #2 · answered by bobed232 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Me and my husband have been swinging with other couples before we were even married. You have to have a lot of trust in your spouse. we only do this in same room.. It can really spice up your sex life. Then you will be more able to fulfill you and your husbands fantasy's. It is not a thing that any couple can do. And no everyone is not fat nor ugly..lol It's not adultery. It's really no different than wearing sexy night gowns for your spouse to turn him on a little more. Me and my husband both enjoy this lifestyle.. You have to be very secure in your relationship or marriage to do this..
2006-10-02 03:00:13 · answer #3 · answered by luv2swing28 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The moral issue really depends on whether you can - or should - separate sex from love.
Personally I think swinging is fine if both people in the couple are genuinely OK with it - but I wonder how many people just go along with it to keep their partner happy?
2006-10-02 02:20:36 · answer #4 · answered by Kat69 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think they should leave the swings in the park for the Kids. The swings are not strong enough for adults, especally two at a time!
2006-10-02 06:48:31 · answer #5 · answered by GORDON P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whatever floats your boat!
I'd love to swing but my wife isn't interested in sex - even with me!
Can a guy go swinging on his own? Dogging is a bit risky and cold at this time of year so I don't want my dick to freeze ... :-(
2006-10-02 02:52:57 · answer #6 · answered by Marinersfan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whilst I personally wouldnt be into that kinda thing - I hold no negativity towards those who do.
Its an individual choice and based on what I hear - it can really be beneficial and actually strengthen some couples relationships.
2006-10-02 03:53:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it does it for you (both) then cool, no worries.
I, for one, though, absolutely could not share my wife with another guy, even if I was also "otherwise engaged" - it's not right really. I don't get these guys who get turned on by watching another fella nailing their wife.
I know of someone who does get involved in this sort of thing with her husband, she seems happy enough and secure in her relationship, just isn't for me.
If you want to, do it, if not then don't. Easy as that.
2006-10-02 02:15:10 · answer #8 · answered by BushRaider69 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as its not just one person doing it to please their partner then i don't see the harm, however i would not do it myself as i think most people who do it are bored with their relationships, and if i got that fed up in a relationship id rather end it and look for someone new who i could share my love with once again !.
2006-10-02 02:14:39 · answer #9 · answered by Richard 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i do my swinging in the park.
there all a bunch of animals.
keep away from the pervs.
nothing to do with old fashioned,its an excuse for the pervies to come out.
2006-10-02 02:08:31 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋