alright tell me like honestly.....i just recently moved to a new collage and met some new friends...and so we were just talking about who's cute in our collage (which they're is hardly anyone...) okay so one of my friends admits she likes one of the basket ball players...and well i didnt like him then...but i'ave growen pretty fond of him lately..and hes in my class's...would it be wrong if i were to get to know him better or maybe want to date him...knowing my friend likes him ( and just add she has A SERIOUS boyfriend she wants to get enaged too real soon) and she just wanted him has collage eye candy...(but i think she'll feel alittle upset with it)>....sooooooooo what do you all say...should i go for it :)
2006-10-02 01:56:56 · 25 answers · asked by cheirie 1 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
ohhh nono i dont wanna tell her...she'll be pissed cause she did like him first !!!..but see i'm single and i like him...its not fair to me..when shes actually with someone...(like really seriously)
2006-10-02 02:00:20 · update #1
lolz she says he gives her butterflys but you know he never looks at her...and he seems interested in me!!...
2006-10-02 02:01:28 · update #2
He's open game....she isn't dating him.
Go for it.
2006-10-02 01:59:05 · answer #1 · answered by Robert 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't you hate when you get into these predicaments but we all have. I, in the past would back off and now when I think about it, I was a fool. What I think you should do, and I didn't, is talk to your friend. Ask her if she is still serious about getting engaged to her boyfriend. Then if she is, tell her you are interested in the basketball player and plan on asking him out since she is almost engaged and it wouldn't be a very good idea to date another guy and become confused. Then just walk away.
2006-10-02 09:04:12 · answer #2 · answered by winter715 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you just want to talk to him, go for it! From there, if you'd like to do a little more, like dating him, maybe you should talk to your friend about it first. She just wants to look at the guy, and you see that she isn't really upset about it or isn't upset about it at all, go for it. And considering she has a very serious boyfriend and wants to get engaged, it's not like she'll want anything to do with the boy except look at him. So talk to your friend first, and then decide.
2006-10-02 09:00:59 · answer #3 · answered by London Romance 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a very difficult situation. Id sit with her and ask if she would have a problem with it. And tell her to be truthful. Honest. If she says 'no' but looks a little hurt or is hesitant, then id be careful. But she has a boyfriend, a serious one, so its a little strange. If its just the eye candy, then maybe you dating him would have him around more and she could scope him out, if you didnt mind haha :)
2006-10-02 09:00:14 · answer #4 · answered by Mabry M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, if she already is almost engaged to then eye candy is eye candy....she cant have it anyways right?? Well then whats the harm in you having somthing that she cant really have anyways? Nothing at all. It wouldn't be fair for her to get mad...What are you supposed to do, not have a relationship with anyone that she thinks is hot? LOL right, thats not right. Follow your heart, she already made her choice.
2006-10-02 09:03:38 · answer #5 · answered by bigred5825 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would say go for it, however give yourself a little test first. ask yourself if it was the other way around would you be offended? or hopefully next time the conversation comes up she'll say she thinks someone else is cute & then you could be "innocent" of going for it., Is there anyone else you think is cute in college, pick a few before you go for that one...give it a little time if you feel uncomfortable & considering your friends' feelings.
2006-10-02 09:03:08 · answer #6 · answered by newcastle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first thing you need to do is study spelling or at least use the spell checker. Collage = college, growen = growing..... you're in college?
2006-10-02 08:59:24 · answer #7 · answered by farahwonderland2005 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
go for it
she's got a man, you like this fellow, so bad luck for her if she gets upset. if she's serious about her bloke, then good, no reason to be jealous.
just don't make a big deal about dating this boy, and kept all your friends in the picture.
hey, college is about exploring and being part of the society, so get out and enjoy.
2006-10-02 09:01:01 · answer #8 · answered by pugsbaby 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes go for it. Your friend might be a little jealous, but she should take it good in a good way and be happy for you. I am sure she will want to know all the inside "dope" on your every encounter, and kidding along with her should keep your relationship with her going strong.
2006-10-02 09:01:45 · answer #9 · answered by loufedalis 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ummm I think that you should just wait rightnow…don’t do anything drastic..theres nothing wrong with a little flirting and what she doesn’t know cant hurt her…just wait and let him make the first move..and when he does it becomes HIS thing not yours…
2006-10-02 10:09:25 · answer #10 · answered by Fia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
getting to know someone isnt dating them. nothing wrong with that in my opinion. did u just take notice of him because of her endorsment though? hmmm...she's probably fine with admiring him from afar and has no real plans on pursuing anything with him and would more than likely be fine with you hanging out with him. if she does get upset, i'd guess it'd soon pass.
2006-10-02 08:59:38 · answer #11 · answered by Ms. Meli 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋