I have a best friend aley and we have been friends for a long time. She introduced me to a guy overtime we went out. I had 2 break up with him because of a long story with court and I was planning on getting back with him but he kissed my best friend. I thought never in a million years would he kiss aley. What should I do
2006-10-02 01:49:59 · 24 answers · asked by Crystal S 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Get a new best friend and ditch the guy...
2006-10-02 01:51:36 · answer #1 · answered by shughes2000_2000 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, do remember she introduced you to him. She apparently had her eye on him too. Was there some romantic history that you did not know about? Perhaps she never told you just how close they were previously.
You broke up with him. You didn't mention how long you dated. You broke up. You can't control who he kisses- whether it is your best friend, your sister, or a stranger. You broke up. He has a life too. You broke up. "Planning on getting back with him" does not mean he is "reserved" for you only.
He may be just trying to get your attention but it is a low move. I would be more mad at my best friend.
Did I mention it was you who broke up???
2006-10-02 01:59:36 · answer #2 · answered by lofolulu 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's hard, but if you guys don't love each other...get over it.
If your friend is happy, support her.
If you can't deal, tell your friend that this is hurting your friendship, i'm sure she'll be on your side.
It sounds like you are young(16-22)
This kind of drama is going to go on throughout these ages..just be patient and love your friend...it's gonna be a bumpy ride.
2006-10-02 01:54:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing at all! Wish them the best cause when you said long story & court that did it for me. Sounds like drama already.You need to find you a new guy & let them do their thing cause it will be one her friends in about 3 weeks..lol
2006-10-02 01:53:03 · answer #4 · answered by "karma" 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first of all did you really like this guy?Enough to jeopardize your friendship with your best friend.If i was you id talk to her try and figure out what went on if you can forgive her then do it,Because believe you me men arn't worth losing a best friend over.
2006-10-02 02:13:35 · answer #5 · answered by cheekychimp 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give him a slap across the head and tell him he has a small p***s
and ask your friend exactly how it happened because maybe he kissed her first and not the other way around and she probably feels guilty about it. however if she turns out to be interested in the guy then you don't need a friend like that. tell her "what comes around goes around".
2006-10-02 02:14:49 · answer #6 · answered by seker s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had the same problem, once. I was jealous but I wanted to be happy for her. But my ex boyfriend and I are now really good friends.
2006-10-02 01:54:34 · answer #7 · answered by <3 england <3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whatever you do, DON'T do something to make either one of them happy first. Make the decision that will make you happy and that won't leave you with a feeling of 'I'm doing this for them, and it's making me feel like crap about myself.'...
That being said, if you need to walk away, walk away.
2006-10-02 01:54:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
kiss that b oy he don't like and if it's good then go out with him
you could just move on and drop both them
you also could beat her a$$ then go after him
2006-10-02 01:56:40 · answer #9 · answered by glo_gbaby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave her.
True friends do not kiss your ex's its not a sign of friendship
2006-10-02 01:54:02 · answer #10 · answered by fan_of_metal_gear_solid_4_life 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋