I'm 25 and my bf is 41.I live with my parents and I'm a victim of mental abuse as my bf wud emotionally tear and bring me down each time he has a good chance. My health is very bad now and I'm going thru depression. the thing is that, each time my bf emotionally abuses me, I would CRY and since i'm staying with my parents, I dont want to show them the problem or the swollen face that I have from the fact tht I cried or hurt myself. DOes anyone here know how can I look normal and without puffineess in my eyes if i had cried? thanks for helping me.
2006-10-02 01:47:26 · 12 answers · asked by Anisha81 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Honey, Get rid of the boyfriend you'll be surprised at how quickly the puffiness, red eyes and depression will disappear!!!! You can do much better, if someone cares about you, they don't put you down, they lift you up!!! Would you let a girlfriend talk to you like he does, how about a stranger? If someone just walked up to you and said the things he does, would look at that person and say "Oh, say those horrible things to me again, I love it when you talk mean to me!!" Then who the heck is he to talk to you like that!! Remember the second part of Boyfriend is friend is he acting like a friend?????????? Get rid of him, NOW! Life is to short and your to sweet to put up with his nonsense!!!!!
2006-10-02 02:00:51 · answer #1 · answered by mamaexfour 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don 't try to get rid of the puffiness! GET RID OF THE BOYFRIEND! You don't need that. Have some confidence in yourself. Value yourself. Get some backbone and tell that jerk that if he doesn't start treating you better, starting IMMEDIATELY that you are through. You don't have to live life being abused by anyone, in any way, shape or form. You are young, you deserve to be happy. And the thing is that you are the only one that can control the situation. You don't have to take what he is dishing out!
2006-10-02 09:18:38 · answer #2 · answered by grandmaL 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go out and buy two big T-bone steaks and put one over each eye. Then let them on there until you figure out that you look even worse with two raw steaks on your face. Cook the steaks. Call your abusive boyfriend, tell him that you are eating two steaks in celebration of you dumping him. Then with a good meal under your belt, go out and find someone who actually cares about you.
2006-10-02 09:04:22 · answer #3 · answered by ' 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wouldnt try to hide this problem. your bf should not be menatly abusing you! i would end this relationship and go get help before things escalate into physical abuse. but if you really dont want to end the relationship then to look normal splash your face with cold water and if you've got redness to your face you can rub your whole face with your hands to even out the redness. hope things get better for you.
2006-10-02 08:55:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ohh how easy this is. Nobody deserves to be in an abusive relationship. What you need to do is end the relationship with the boyfriend and find someone who will treat you with the love and respect you deserve
2006-10-02 09:00:37 · answer #5 · answered by Mike 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely, you can start by getting rid of this guy, then you can grab your friends and take a trip to the day spa. Keypoint surround yourself with people who love you and want to be around you not people who step all over ya.
2006-10-02 08:52:16 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump your bf...actually i wouldn't call him that i'd call him a jerk...that's the best way to get rid of the crying which of course will stop the puffiness...ice cubes help too and warm tea bags will too...tea bags first then ice....good luck...really get over him he is not worth it and do not hurt yourself...would also help if maybe you talked to your parents or your mom at least anyway it's amazing how they can help sometimes
2006-10-02 08:54:15 · answer #7 · answered by bunny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LEAVE HIM
HE DOESNT REALLY LOVE YOU
there is no way to not make it look like you have just cried
2006-10-02 08:53:22 · answer #8 · answered by bornetobegerman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
o just be happy! n what u doing to urself, its insane,
i cnt asnwer u, plz take care
2006-10-02 08:51:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
DUMP YOUR BOYFRIEND! Then your eyes will not be puffy anymore.
2006-10-02 08:58:14 · answer #10 · answered by Deerrunner 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋