i liked her a lot. but later she told me she is a divorcee with a kid. i feel cheated. now she wants to marry me. i have been avoiding the marriage issue. now she wants a child fm me even if i don nt want to get married to her! i m in a fix. Is this right to go ahead....she is a very moody person, obsessed with me! She threatens to harm her self if i decide to go away fm her! I m freaking out, Help?
2006-10-02 01:44:02 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
marry her
2006-10-02 01:57:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If I was you I'd defiantly not be thinking of marrying a woman such as her. The way you describe her says for one she has some mental issues and two if you married her and she's moody and obsessed you would then become her prisoner since her behavior sounds like shes a very jealous person as well. I'd distance yourself from her and defiantly not meet up with her again even if the sex was what you called mind blowing. Otherwise she could end up pregnant and make matters even worse. Good luck.
2006-10-02 02:10:07 · answer #2 · answered by ? 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That is a tough one to answer there. Even if the sex is good and you already are questioning this relationship/affair then it's probably not a good idea. Moodiness will probably get worse and the over possession will lead to alot of problems later. I would like try and break it off before you go ahead and make a mistake.
Rob
2006-10-02 01:51:10 · answer #3 · answered by bor_rabnud 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Oh, boy! Do you love her? If the answer is yes, then you know what to do; if its no then get that young lady some help or something!! Maybe the reason why she is SO clinging is the fact that she has gone through a divorce and now is single trying to readjusted to her new life !!!
I pray that this help you out my friend! Good luck!
2006-10-02 01:51:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep. undesirable theory to have sex instantly away- thinking you dont recognize a lot about one yet another- illnessess and ailments ,etc., the guy already had you- he's not into you for some thing else now. till you only opt for to be a booty call- yet feels like he does no longer opt for even a booty call. regrettably- at the same time as adult adult males have sex on the first date- they are only being adult adult males- yet females are skanky to furnish it as a lot as quickly- and he sees you as that- you gave it as a lot as quickly- you wll do this with others. Drop it and flow on- dont make the mistakes again. till it really is all you opt for- a booty call.
2016-11-25 22:16:58 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
RUN this ones nuts. Any person that "will do harm to themselves is NOT a good choice to be arround". This individual sounds very obsessive, not a good choice. My friend dated someone like this and through her controlling antics was dragged through the depths of HELL. She is likely to do anything and dangerous, recommend that she get counsiling and treatment.
2006-10-02 01:52:36 · answer #6 · answered by fstopf4 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Bail out NOW!
If she harms herself that is on her - but if she is a wack job she could come after you!
Change the number on your home phone, don't answer your cell and move if you can
2006-10-02 02:07:17 · answer #7 · answered by roadrunner426440 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You already know the answer. You're hooked on the sex, but you don't want the "ball and chain".
Let her go.
2006-10-02 02:11:52 · answer #8 · answered by wayouthere 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
avoid her now
2006-10-02 02:03:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋