i have fallen in love with two woman in my life but screwd it up because i see them with other guys.why o why o why.i cant control my mind im now 41 what chance have i got
2006-10-02 01:24:24 · 23 answers · asked by john boy -1 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
b/c you're probably insecure about yourself worried they're gonna compare you to other guys they've been with...if she really loves you those other men will be the farthest thing from her mind....and 41 really isnt' that old my grandfather is 60 and is working on 2 women right now....good luck
2006-10-02 01:29:00 · answer #1 · answered by Danielle S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just gonna have to get over that. No chance your gonna find a 40 year old virgin. (except on the top shelf of blockbuster video) sorry bad joke. It is the way it is. My wife was married 10 years and had 2 kids. Now we are together and really happy. I have to see her ex at least once a week cause of the kids. It kinda sucks but I look at it like this he screwed up and lost the best thing I ever had
2006-10-02 01:33:54 · answer #2 · answered by highrange101 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You ain't got a snowballs chance in Satan's parlor unless you wise up and grow up. Your basic problem is petty jealousy and insecurity. It will be difficult - but you could, if you worked hard at it with a professional counsellor - improve your social skills AND your attitude towards sex. How badly do you want the benefits of learning to be a touch more adult about others' past experiences? Frankly, their past "baggage" is none of your beezwax. You don't go 'round bragging about your sexual conquests to women you find interesting, do you? So why should the feel obligated to do the same?
2006-10-02 01:38:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound insecure and maybe jealous. Are possessive towards women and think you own them? Did something in your childhood make you that way? You don't stand too much of a chance with women if you want a 40 yr. old virgin. And even then, it sounds like you might ruin your relationship with that person by being jealous. You stated "but I screwed up".....so see...you know the answer. No woman is perfect.
2006-10-02 01:28:38 · answer #4 · answered by lucy p 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
VERY little chance of you finding a virgin. You can spend the rest of your life alone, or get some therapy. I think you are probably gay and using this as an excuse.
What possible difference could it make to a relationship how many times she's been poked, or how many times he's poked. Ridiculous. No sympathy
2006-10-02 01:29:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
...maybe it is a matter of self respect...I would not want to mess around garbage cans too...
Just the idea of taking part, where some other guy had already squirts...jiggggy
I can`t imagine that a woman presenting herself like that, be in her normal state of mind ... it`s just a messy dirty, filthy, orgy.
A woman like that can`t even be called a ***** or a **** `cause she`s worse than one.
It`s strange that people are still complaining about Aids and other sexual deceases... I wonder where it comes from...?
The most shocking part of it is, most of them calls themselves "Christians" - what a shame to humanity ....
2006-10-02 02:14:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Haven't you been with a woman before?
What about if girls think like you?
You won't even have a chance.!
So, relax ..your life is going way without the special one...
Give yourself a chance a new life a family..
Don't think in the past of the woman, think the future you can have with her...
2006-10-02 01:35:49 · answer #7 · answered by Sal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dare say you will never meet a woman that has not slept with other guys.
why think about it? you should be enjoing the time you have with her!
you need to change your ways of thinking otherwise you will never have a relationship that lasts!
good luck!
2006-10-02 01:39:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your finding it hard to cope with because your insecure. You have a fear that because they've been with other men, they'll compare you.
41 huh? Think you'll luck out at this age and find yourself a virgin? Don't think so, unless you become a child preditor.
2006-10-02 01:29:04 · answer #9 · answered by peggin_beast 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your kind of in trouble, because the chances of you finding someone who has not had sex yet is slim. Your only option is to find someone to love without having sex, or take your chances on going to jail by dating a school girl, (just kidding on the last one). Good luck finding someone.
2006-10-02 01:30:55 · answer #10 · answered by loser 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋