i have this best friend who ive known all my life know she's decided shes a bi-sexual she has a girl friend who she is ingaged with she told me a week ago how happy she is but know she's saying shed rather be with me and how she likes me more than a friend know but im straight i like guys i dont want to hurt her feelings shes still my best friend
2006-10-02 01:07:58 · 15 answers · asked by Karen J 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Just tell her that you are straight and you love her as a friend. She should understand you have been friends all your lives. i Dont think she is expecting you to be bi-sexual too, I think she just needs to tell you that she cares for you more than you think. Dont let it affect your friendship thats a very good friendship you have there you dont get alot of friends that you have had all your life. Im a lucky one like you, i have a best friend i have had all my life and i can tell her anything, she never jodges me and im the same. Im sure you too are the same, so just sit her down and say you are very flattered but you i like them orrible men for some strange reason! ;oP xXx
2006-10-02 01:18:13 · answer #1 · answered by Fader's Girl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you are straight but she is a girl right? So what does that have to do with anything, she likes girls and guys, you should love that!! But if you dont want to be anything more than friends tell her i am sure she will understand and if she doesnt then thats not a best friend. good luck hun!
2006-10-02 08:12:07 · answer #2 · answered by aricalyn10<3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a friend that is bi and she braids my hair. She talked about me and her being together but she realize that it would never happen. She said that she would never mess up a cool friendship. She still does her thing but she knows not to look at me like that. We just talk about it. I will never knock what she is doing and she doesn't knock what I am doing. We just pick at each other about who we are dating like any friends would do. We just have fun laughing at each other. I believe true friends will be there regardless and with understanding.
2006-10-02 08:42:35 · answer #3 · answered by funoburgmom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweety, you won't be hurting her feelings by being 'straight". She should already know this. Just tell her, she's barking up the wrong tree! You love your friendship the way it is. So, tell her you want to keep it that way. IF she doesn't understand, she has a problem, not you!!
2006-10-02 08:24:18 · answer #4 · answered by peggin_beast 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her the truth,It probably will hurt her feelings at first but shel get over it and when she does shel realise that having you Around as a friend is alot better then not having you around at all.
2006-10-02 09:19:34 · answer #5 · answered by cheekychimp 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no question of hurting her. if you know she is wrong then as a best friends, it is your responsibility to tell that she should get out of this. if this is not posible for you then atleast tell her that you don't feel so for her. I know it is very difficult for you to face such situation but you have to face. you cannot run out of this as she is your friend. Believe me, have a serious conversation with her. BEST OF LUCK!!!!
2006-10-02 08:28:38 · answer #6 · answered by crazychori 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she's your best friend you should be able to pull her aside and say, "hey, you know me better than that!!!! I will be here as a friend for you, but you know I don't do girls." She should respect that. If she doesn't then she's not much of a friend.
2006-10-02 08:38:49 · answer #7 · answered by BluePassion 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her know that just because she's engaged doesn't mean that you won't be there for her and you always will be standing right behind her, but you rather a guy stand behind you (real close).
2006-10-02 08:21:47 · answer #8 · answered by 504Boy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing to be cleared upon by explaining to her.. Tell her what you really feel for her and be ready if she refuses your decision.. Now, if she really wanted you to be happy because you're her friend, she can understand you..
2006-10-02 08:13:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
get out with a boy firend and make it out in front of her
i guess she'll get it clear that u like boys and not girls
but i don't think it shud be for real with a guy i mean act like a drama
2006-10-02 08:26:18 · answer #10 · answered by Gamesr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋