There was this gal in the next class, who became a very good friend of mine in jus three weeks.......we share all our feelings with each other. We are just really very good friends.
The other day she says me that the guy with whom she had broken up is my best friend and the guy doent know that I know about their relationship. I as a friend want the both of them to be together.....but my problem is not this...!!!
Though I respect this gal very much, now after being very close friends I feel that I have a kinda crush on her or may be I love her, I am not sure......but I cant say her all these.
I talk to her everyday for long hours but I never disclosed my feelings for her.
I jus wanna know people......is this love what I feel for her......or jus a crush......i do really care a lot for her and she too does......I m totally confused here......
People hope u understand my prob :(
2006-10-02 01:03:15 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
All love starts as a crush, which is what you've got. She just broke up with your friend, so give it plenty of time...and I mean months. She's on the rebound and since he was your friend you don't want to get in the middle of that right now or it will end up being "your" fault.
Continue to be her friend and share conversations etc. and wait to see what grows out of it. If you just remain friends, well and good, you haven't lost anything. And if it grows into a relationship, that's fine too. But DON'T push it or get in a hurry to move to the next level. You don't want to lose your friends.
2006-10-02 01:07:34 · answer #1 · answered by anna 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do you think your best friend is going to take you going out with his ex? If you find that he won't have a problem with it, then take things slow. There's no need to rush into a relationship with someone you've only known a short time, regardless how much the two of you talk. Try going out with a group of friends and see how things go, if she stays near you, maybe she's interested. What ever you do, don't rush things, breakups take time to heal and friendships that could develop into more take time to start.
2006-10-02 08:11:24 · answer #2 · answered by Laurie K 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her and tell her how your feeling or think your feeling, maybe you two should try dating and see where it goes, If your thinking this much about her and this situation, i would say you have pretty strong feelings for her. I would go for it. You never know what may happen, but you never know, she may be the one for you.
2006-10-02 08:09:06 · answer #3 · answered by Dawn L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in ur confusion i gt confused 2!!!!!!!!!!!! i think this is more than a crush since uve now known her fr a long time(i think) and there4 u no everything bout her... go ahead take the chance spill ur guts ..and if she dusnt like u bak keep being frends..
2006-10-02 10:07:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is the most confusing..mind boggling emotion out there and no there is no answer that is right or wrong...
2006-10-02 08:06:21 · answer #5 · answered by cleo_alter_ego 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
crush
2006-10-02 08:05:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋