She thinks every one want to hear her stories, and just talks all the time I don’t know if its attention seeking or whether she is genuinely psychotic, some people (men) put up with her because she is pretty, but she just doesn’t know how annoying it is.
Should I tell her
2006-10-02 00:38:04 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Honestly - I don't think that telling her she's annoying and talks to much will help. Best bet - try to distance yourself from her if there's something about her you can't cope with. Telling her would only create conflict between the two of you and cause her to be insecure. Sometimes people mature slower than others. Give her a chance to mature. Hopefully she'll grow out of it, but I don't think you need to say anything. Just don't spend as much time with her.
2006-10-02 07:07:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No don't tell her. It would crush her and it would be very rude of you, especially if most people don't feel the same way you do. Everyone knows someone like that. All you can do is avoid the person or end up talking to them and try to get away as quick as possible. Maybe some people actually enjoy her conversations....
I actually learned more about someone who is a non-stop talker. It turns out she had a very rough childhood, which explains why she won't stop talking. She is probably looking for acceptance.
2006-10-02 07:47:55 · answer #2 · answered by hello 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Probably you should take a really good look at why this annoys you so much. I'm not saying you're jealous, but it could be that she's just a blabbermouth trying to cheer people up and no harm done. Why would she be "genuinely psychotic"? It sounds like you're over-reacting.
2006-10-02 07:51:13 · answer #3 · answered by Zelda Hunter 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can understand men put up with her - you say she is beautiful. Why do you put up with her - I mean why do you not just avoid her ? Obviously that doesn't quite solve your problem. Then one thing is sure - you can't tell her - neither directly nor indirectly - this is one message you dare not give her. So what can you do ? You must try to give it back in her own coin - that is, you start telling stories whenever she is around. If you can't do that, gang up with another friend to do that. Another method could be to ask questions when she is narrating stories - that is, disturb her flow.
Hope, you pick up some idea here.
2006-10-02 09:13:36 · answer #4 · answered by small 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well telling her may not be the best way! But there are quite a few like her, i can tell you that. Maybe you should use some clever/witty retorts so that she getsthe message. I always have believed humour and subtlety have a lot to do with solving such problems, but you have to patient and wait for the right time.
Not sure if this helps....I hope it does!
2006-10-02 07:51:11 · answer #5 · answered by book_worm 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she's that annoying, then you probably shouldn't hang out with her. And if you really miss hanging out with her but you dont like that particular thing about her then you should tell her that, But tell her when you guys are alone so you dont totally hurt her feelings in front of a bunch of people.
2006-10-02 07:53:48 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get over with being jealous and move on. Sounds to me like you have a lot of insecurity in your life. What is wrong with people talking? Do her a favor and move on.
2006-10-02 09:30:57 · answer #7 · answered by The_answer_person 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A good wack across the face never hurt anyone. LOL No but serisously now, you should probably just say something to her about it. She can't possibly get mad because she runs her mouth about whatever she wants- right?
2006-10-02 07:46:38 · answer #8 · answered by momofthreemiracles 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Thank her for her stories. Request for more stories from her. She will have to crack her head to tell you more stories. And she will begin telling people that ' you are annoying' because you request for more of her stories
2006-10-02 07:48:11 · answer #9 · answered by Tashi Khoo 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should try to tell some of your own stories and when she doesn't shut up, call her out on it and tell her she needs to be a better listner.
2006-10-02 07:46:12 · answer #10 · answered by Linzy Rae 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋