2006-10-02 00:21:08 · 28 answers · asked by charmbelle 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
First of all, you NEVER go after her friends! That's an unwritten rule! If she continually cheats on you, then dump her! But never ever go for her friends! Then her friend wouldn't even be a good friend! Dump her and go out and find someone else, not her friends!
2006-10-02 07:38:33 · answer #1 · answered by Angelina 4 · 6⤊ 2⤋
As much as you would like to "get back at her". Don't be as low as her. First decide whether your going to give her a second chance or not. Then if not, break up with her and explain why. If she's ok with the break up, ask her if she would mind you dating her close friend. There's a friendship between them two that shouldn't be broken just because you two broke up and she's unfaithful. If you show her respect to her and her close friend's relationship that will be enough to show her how much she's really missing with you. Have a great day :)
2006-10-02 07:40:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, break-up with that unfaithful girlfriend of yours, and get on with your life... Don't mind her friend who has a crush on you it's only a crush, and you wouldn't want to be as bad as your unfaithful girlfriend for going out with her friend, you might end their friendship.... Just find someone better than your girlfriend.
2006-10-02 08:11:26 · answer #3 · answered by Artemis 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is not a hard situation. Its very very simple. You break up with the cheating girlfriend!! Do not under any circumstances stoop to the cheaters level by going with this crush while you are still involved. Just break up with this no good gf and move on with your life. By the way, be fair to the crush too, if you really do like her then maybe you should pursue that AFTER you breakup with the gf, but if you dont truly feel something for her then dont lead her on or use her just to get back at your cheating gf.
2006-10-02 07:27:36 · answer #4 · answered by rxtech05 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
1. You break things off with the unfaithful girlfriend.
2. You do NOT repeat NOT stoop to her level by sleeping with her close friend.
3. You move on with your life.
2006-10-02 07:22:36 · answer #5 · answered by Liz 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
First I'd be absolutely sure the girlfriend is really unfaithful. Once that's confirmed, I'd dump her and go after her close friend.
2006-10-02 07:24:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'll let my girl friend know what i thnk and if i have prove that she has been unfaithful to me i'll show her and finish the relation ship.
now wheather to start a new 1 with her friend is a complex situation if u do that yur gf will thnk that u dunped her because of her.
but if u really like the otheer girl u wont bother abt any one elses opinion, u will simply go forward to starting a new relationship
2006-10-02 07:24:23 · answer #7 · answered by ADEEL SHEIKH 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
what u can do is go and chat to ur girlfriend tell her how u feel about her being unfaithful and that there are other girls out there some of which that like u, but u chose her and this is wat she does to you.Tell her that you forgive her and you want your relationship to work.Don`t go for her friend you will be on the rebound and still hurt because of what your girlfriend had done and she doesn`t desevre to be that.
2006-10-02 07:29:22 · answer #8 · answered by dragonredjoburg 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What comes around goes around. You can go for the crush but one day it will come back to haunt you. Dump the girl and look for more building relationships. This cant be good for anybody
2006-10-02 07:24:46 · answer #9 · answered by CiCi 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
GAWD THIS SUCKS!!!!!!
First determine whether or not your existing gf is playing mind games on you thru her best friend .
Can you and your existing girlfriend get over her cheating ?
if you decide to pursue this new girl you are now very very vunerable
is the feeling mutual between you and your current girfriends best friend
If you do break up with your girlfriend let this new girl know how you feel
great pains must be taken so that you date this girl for the right reasons and not for revenge on your (soon to be) ex gf
let it be known to your (soon to be) ex that you know she is cheating and she should move on to this new guy.
Becareful for yourself and dont be revengeful on your (soon to be) ex
hope this helps
2006-10-02 07:33:35 · answer #10 · answered by bolounit1 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Forget them both and find someone new. Otherwise you will get wrapped up in too much drama. (And trust me, the drama that occurs when you pit two female friends against each other can be the nastiest kind of all!)
2006-10-02 07:32:46 · answer #11 · answered by Little Girl Blue 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋