I am going to a funeral it is a work colleagues husband, do I need to wear all black to the crematorium or could I just go smart casual but not black
2006-10-02 00:09:13 · 33 answers · asked by linzi h 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
were what you want just look nice she will apperciate you are there reguardless. and remember to tell her god got another angel>
2006-10-02 00:10:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
It is always respectful to wear black, but it is not always what the deceased would want so it is worth checking with husband as to what the other's will be wearing - if it is black then so be it, you could put a black jumper/blouse on with a pair of trousers or a skirt it doesn't have to be too fancy or expensive....it is about showing respect not a fashion show at the end of the day.
2006-10-02 02:41:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel comfortable wearing all black then do so. If not then wear some black and a splash of another colour but not white as you'll look like a waitress. The colleauge wont be bothered about what youre wearing anyway, she'll be just glad of youre support and that you went to the funeral. Best wishes!!!
2006-10-02 00:12:49 · answer #3 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Myself, I usually risk offending by saying that I don't do funerals. But, since you are nice enough to go and bear the torture I would say wear what's comfortable. Somber colors and a somber attitude is all that's needed. And, none of those catch phrases that are so popular (like the God has another angel garbage.) Anyone who has just lost someone hates those things and the best thing to say sometimes is that we don't know what to say except how sorry we are that they are having to go through all this. I wish you and your colleague the very best.
2006-10-02 00:26:29 · answer #4 · answered by Justin W 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Traditionally black is what people wear to funerals, and it would show a lot of respect for the family and mourners there if you did decide to go with black.
2006-10-02 00:40:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would go with something black but not all black. You could wear a black coat if you own one that colour, Im sure she wont mind, the fact that you are there for her is more important than what you are wearing.
2006-10-02 00:12:03 · answer #6 · answered by Scatty 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would consider dark clothing as a mark of respect. Black i feel is for more closer and immediate family. Either way be there for your colleague if she needs you.
2006-10-02 01:34:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dress code does matter in such solemn occasions. If it is not a taboo, you may wear any kind of dress. But ensure that it is not too bright to offend the sentiments of the mourners. The safe thing would be to wear a black dress that will conform to the occasion.
2006-10-02 00:12:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go with the black
2006-10-02 00:10:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I really don't think it's really necessary to wear all black. I don't concern myself with that when going to viewings, or funerals. (I try to stay away from bright colors -- for example, I wouldn't wear a fuschia dress.) I do think it's disrespectful not to dress up at all, though.
2006-10-02 00:15:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry to hear about your colleagues death,
i think you could get away with black and white ,say something like a black suit with a black and white small printed blouse or a deep purple and black would also be ideal
2006-10-02 00:19:45 · answer #11 · answered by lizella 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋