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2006-10-01 23:29:27 · 23 answers · asked by lilleablue 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I'm so confused, I stil need to be in contact with him for a totally unrelated reason.
2006-10-01 23:47:10 · update #1
I believe she is setting you up. You are in love with this man....she knows you had/having an affair with him, yet she doesnt seem too bothered.....seems strange to me. I think she is playing games......she is trying to make you believe something that is not true. If she wasnt bothered, then why would she want you to text her when her husband contacted you? Seems very suspicious to me. I would most definitely not be contacting her about anything.under any circumstances. If this man trully loves you, he will come to you on his own accord, but if he thinks you are conspiring against him, then he is not going to trust you. A man will have an affair because there is something lacking in his marriage. I dont believe there are many men who will have an affair just for the "hell" of it. It sounds to me like there a big problems in his marriage...sounds to me like his wife is a bit of a manipulator. I would be very wary if I were you......only trust your gut instincts....no-one knows what you and this man mean to each other. Lots of people will condemn you for being in love with a married man.....all I can say to these people is .....get real, we live in the here and the now....marriage is not what it is supposed to be and too many people view it as a way to own another person.
If his wife is a manipulator, then he wouldnt be very happy in his marriage at all. If you take sides with the wife then he will have no-one he can turn to...no-one he can trust.
Its your decision...I just know, if this man means anything to you, then stay out of it, dont give his wife any ammunition that could hurt either you or this man.
2006-10-02 01:08:20 · answer #1 · answered by rightio 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just stay out of it and unless there is a child involved cease all personal communications. You aren't obligated to inform the wife. However, if it is work related, you can always use a messenger etc.. for communications. Change your phone number or let the voice mail pick up all of her calls.
2006-10-02 01:11:44 · answer #2 · answered by GrnApl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do NOT contact her, If your still banging him , and don't want to stop. then keep it a secret.
His wife is Never leaving him and he is never leaving her.
He can't afford to. trust me.
Just stop talking to her, cause she's his wife and he is HER husband not yours.
He just wants to bang you, and if your ok with that then fine. but if your looking for more than he's just pretending so he can keep banging you.
trust me alot of me are like that. they have said" Some girls you marry and some girls you "
well you know how that goes.
so make a choice but stop talking to her. what's the matter with you ? were you thinking he'd end things or what. that's the real question
2006-10-04 07:10:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must tell her and maybe forward the txt on to her if he sends you a txt. After that then keep away from them both for your sake as well as hers.
Havent seen your other q but if its what i think it is then i went through this and i was the wife!!
Both times the other girls told me so there was no problem and it satisfied my own curiosity and i knew i wasnt going mad.
2006-10-01 23:35:29 · answer #4 · answered by heleneaustin 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you should talk to the guy and find out what is going on between him and his wife. if he's still trying to play hubby then you should kick him to the curb, if he says they are separated or in the process of divorce the 3 of you need to make sure everyone is on the same page. wifey sounds like a stalker so you had better be careful. it may be best for you just to stay out of it for your own safety.
2006-10-02 01:52:21 · answer #5 · answered by Quociana L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I f your saying that this husband is texting you behind his wife's back then I guess yes, she does have right to know. Question is, how did this all start, how did he get your number in the first place? If you don't appreciate these text's you should tell him to leave you alone before you tell his wife and if it doesn't stop then tell her . Good luck xxxx
2006-10-01 23:50:35 · answer #6 · answered by crazychicklisieloo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me guess you are the "other woman". No, you have no obligation to let her know her husband is straying again. Unless of course you do not want him to bother you any more.
BTW, Help yourself out. Dump this guy and find someone who is available. Why have your life intertwined with a cheat and the psycho wife? By definition, cheaters are scumbags. Do you really want to hang out with scum? Its not good for your self esteem.
2006-10-01 23:42:55 · answer #7 · answered by Flagger 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would keep well out of it. Make some non-commital reply to the wife and keep WELL away from the man!
2006-10-01 23:32:25 · answer #8 · answered by Sweet FA 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depends on if you still want to keep seeing the bloke. If you wanna keep seeing him, just tell the wife you will, but dont.
If you not seeing the bloke anymore then just keep well out of it.
2006-10-01 23:33:57 · answer #9 · answered by OriginalBubble 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Move on and avoid all contact with both of them. Let them work out their problems and you yours
2006-10-01 23:37:07 · answer #10 · answered by Cdn_Superdave 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋