well i love this gal in my class...and i askd her out..and now this feeling has changed..its almost been like two months...and i dont think that i reallly love her..i mean its jus friendship i guess...this feeling has changed cuz i had jus come out of a 4 yr relationship wid another gal and i askd my classmate out...i reallly dont knw wat to do...she loves me alot bt i dont think its gnna work as my feelins have changed...please help me..
2006-10-01 23:21:57 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
the longer you leave telling her the truth the harder it will be for both of you. do the right thing and confront her about your changed feelings. its not going to be easy on her either way, but its something you have to do now.
2006-10-01 23:26:44 · answer #1 · answered by vanessaoz 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first of all, u took a haste decision! now, before taking other haste decision, sit and think about this from every side and then proceed! think thouroughly and then if u think u dnt love her, then try to find ways to tel her the same. Dnt go straight n tell her on face! it will break her heart like anything. other solution could be to give this relation some more time and it could be that the feelings that u having now are temporary, coz u didnt give proper time to come out of that relation. watever u do, plz think properly! it could be that u love her too but u need sm time to heal youself completely! its not everyday that we get a person who would love us a lot. so, think and act! all the best.
2006-10-01 23:28:49 · answer #2 · answered by komal d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are a perfect example of why immature people such as yourself shouldn't dabble in adult issues, such as relationships with the opposite sex.
The only thing you can do now is be honest with her, tell her it's over, and then wait a long long time before even thinking of getting another girlfriend again.
2006-10-01 23:25:02 · answer #3 · answered by Liz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell this girl how you feel before you really break her heart,If you leave it she could end up hating you when you come clean. Let her know and say you are sorry she will be happy as you were honest with her
2006-10-01 23:25:31 · answer #4 · answered by Chrissie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think the best thing to do is tell her how your feeling she may suprise you and be able to help some how its worth a try unless you dont want it to work then i would let her down gently tell her youd have more fun being friends
2006-10-01 23:27:01 · answer #5 · answered by Karen J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think u r a play boy and u doesnt love any of the girl. U just playing and enjoying your young age.
2006-10-01 23:26:46 · answer #6 · answered by Hot Boy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell everything to both gals, Dont keep them in dark... You'll feel very light after doing so... God Bless You...
2006-10-01 23:25:18 · answer #7 · answered by scorpionanand 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ever heard of the word HONESTY? You need to sit down and tell her...unless you don't want to give up the milk because you have the cow....**milk: sex cow: girl**
2006-10-01 23:25:29 · answer #8 · answered by BITE ME 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ever heard of honesty? Just use the "It's not you, it's me" line.
That always works. But still be friendly when you see her.
2006-10-01 23:24:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her!! BUT whatever you do DO NOT say you were on the rebound otherwise it will hurt her. you have to tell her though otherwise you are just giving her false hope hon. xXx
2006-10-01 23:28:46 · answer #10 · answered by Fader's Girl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋