2006-10-01 23:06:32 · 19 answers · asked by Christie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
better than getting married to someone who is still married....
2006-10-01 23:09:05 · answer #1 · answered by Holden 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, for me, it has been a dream come true. My husband was married for about 3 years and thought it would have been forever. He had been divorced, officially gotten it finalized less than a year when we met. We always say we should have met in 8th grade or something but of course we were miles away from one another until he moved to my metro area for med school and we ended up attending the same very large church and met. He had some residual issues though and I had to tell him to please just drop it all. I have an adolescent so I had my issues as well but the balance has been steadied and we are a very happy family now. I know he is the only man in the universe for me and that God made us just specifically for one another.
2006-10-02 07:03:28 · answer #2 · answered by Sleek 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marriage isn't a good idea period. What can you do different if you're married versus single? LOT'S>> I think you can do much more if you're single, like anything you want to do; once you get used to being alone and feeling the freedom. Your door can open wide to many different new and challenging friends, ideas, and actions when being single. Marriage is a deterrent to all of this. Might as well live back home with Mommy & Daddy and their rules.....
2006-10-02 06:39:07 · answer #3 · answered by silhouette 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No idea is good or bad. What you should try to find out is whether you two can live with each other for a long while to come. Deal with the person's past and move on to enjoy life.
2006-10-02 06:10:34 · answer #4 · answered by sexonsight 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd first want to know why their marriage ended in a divorce. You wouldn't want to marry someone that was abusive, or a drunk, or lazy or a cheater. Doesn't sound like you know much about their divorce and maybe you should learn a little more before stepping into a marriage with them.
2006-10-02 08:14:41 · answer #5 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you mean getting married to someone who has been divorced? It's not a bad idea.
2006-10-02 06:26:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for it. I married a guy who was divorced w/ 3 kids. His ex wife cheated on him all the time. I'd make sure i knew why he got a divorce though. Good luck.
2006-10-02 06:19:36 · answer #7 · answered by BadAssGirlINWV 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i married a man who was divorced three times before he married me, i gave it a chance, but he left me for another woman. i thought if i never cheated and held a job, and was a good wife the marriage would be okay but unfortunatly it turned out badly.
2006-10-02 14:52:45 · answer #8 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not a no-never deal, but realize, someone who has been through a divorce is quicker to run from his next marriage or relationship.
You will have to work five times as hard when problems arise!
2006-10-02 06:09:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the divorcee. He may be a gem or a rotten apple. The idea will be good only if one can ascertain what type is the divorcee.
2006-10-02 07:21:30 · answer #10 · answered by openpsychy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋