I am married for a year and I am trying my best to make us happy.
But when I tried to do different things he discouraged me like oh leave it or someother time...........I just hated to sit with him board doing nothing. How could I teach him to create somthing nice ?
I love my husband and I wish our life is full of happyness.
2006-10-01 22:57:16 · 10 answers · asked by Baby 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You should learn him. Know his likings and disliking and reconcile your actions accordingly.Win him first and then lead.To get something ,you will have to leave something. As you love him, you will certainly win him.Have patience!
2006-10-01 23:10:10 · answer #1 · answered by agni 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ah, so what you mean is that you are trying your best to make it your idea of happy. Right? Didnt you have a clue as to how he was before the I DO? What, you overlooked it or something? Thought you could change it maybe?
He may be perfectly comfortable as he is and you actually dont have a right to change that or demand that he does either. Maybe you could show him how doing some stuff you would like will be in his best interests or get him somethings he wants. Just a thought.
2006-10-02 06:13:53 · answer #2 · answered by Mr. JW 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he is just tired after work and does not feel like doing anything. it does not mean that just because he wants to stay in, relaxing, it is boring and he is unhappy.
Next time, prepare for him a nice candlelit dinner at home and prepare his favourite dish. Or maybe a nice warm bubble bath for him to help him relax. Being together and not getting bored does not mean go out of the house and have fun.
2006-10-02 06:04:28 · answer #3 · answered by trushka 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can't "make" anyone happy. It's kinda like beating your head against a brick wall. Your "bump on a log" needs to get his OWN behind moving and CONTRIBUTE to the relationship. If he wants to be a pain leave him home and go have some fun.
2006-10-02 06:01:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
My dear if you truly want to make you both happy then be happy yourself. enjoy life and forget him. You cannot make him. he is what he is I suggest the best thing to do is to ask him what he wants. you may cook beef and all he wants is lizard. He will surely not be happy. However, do not push him. remember, he knows himself long before he knew you
2006-10-02 06:08:49 · answer #5 · answered by sexonsight 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Only you can make you happy. You can blame your husband, he sounds like an ***, but when it comes down to it, it is up to you.
2006-10-02 06:08:52 · answer #6 · answered by hydroco 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Great answers below - do what you want to do - if he sees you having fun he will follow
2006-10-02 06:13:42 · answer #7 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lay your head in his lap and listen to music.
Or lay his head on you and pet his hair.
Enjoy the quiet.
2006-10-02 06:15:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him to get his act together, it takes two to make a relationship work
2006-10-02 05:59:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Two words. Anal Sex.
One more word.
Threesome.
That will spice things up.
2006-10-02 06:05:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 5⤋