i have a boyfriend and im living with him i found out 2months ago that he already have a girlfriend and until now they still see each other. I dont know how to overcome the pain that I'm feeling, I still cant accept it. The girl call my guy everyday and they talk hours on phone. I really dont know what to do. I dont even know if he really loves me. All I want is to stop loving him, but I dont know where to start or how will I do that. Sometimes I want revenge. My guy had an outing last month,he said it's school outing but yesterday when I searched for his camera I saw their pictures together. He lied to me again. I even saw more than that. Please I need help.
2006-10-01 22:54:05 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If you dont love him anymore, that will be easy to forget,
but if you do love him, then you should seduce him, be better than the other girl,
Try to be sexy when you are with him. Trust me, i like a girl that drives me crazy, a hot woman, and thats how we are. So if you want to win this game, then do your best to seduce him,
2006-10-01 23:43:26 · answer #1 · answered by André C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girlfriend, you have answered your own question. Just read what you wrote. That is not love. Because if it was, he would be treating you like a lady, not like a tramp. The guy is a player and he is playing you. RUN as fast as you can away from that situation. You will find a great guy out there, I know, I did. And believe me, that is when you will find real love, from a real man.
2006-10-01 23:07:36 · answer #2 · answered by ncamedtech 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, i'm no love guru, yet that's what i'm questioning. at the beginning, in case you're feeling uncomfortable with your boyfriends habit that is honestly alright to invite him if there is something occurring. you may no longer have a courting with out have faith or recognize, so in case you experience he has disrespected you, then you definately enable him recognize that. in this occasion, it form of feels that he's not taking you heavily once you clarify the form you experience, which could be a controversy. needless to say one way or yet another something has have been given to grant. via him saying "you're making a large deal out of no longer something" then proceed appearing that way exhibits he does not recognize the form you experience. think of of it this way, say you have been a sprint greater flirty with a pal or something and your boyfriend tells you he's not cool with it, what could you do and why? If how he's reacting isn't the form you may react if the jobs have been opposite which could enable you recognize something. i could say that in case you experience such as you may no longer have faith him and are being disrespected you may bypass on a smash, or completely smash it off with him. now and lower back love isn't sufficient, and at situations dropping the only you quite care approximately opens you're eyes to what you quite elect. desire this facilitates. solid success!
2016-12-26 07:14:13 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You, my dear, are being used and there is really nothing you can do about it but leave and stop being this guy's live-in girlfriend. You should NEVER move in with a guy that soon...EVER...and he doesn't owe you anything since he's not married/engaged to you. MOVE OUT...you don't need this from any man. He'll continue to lie and run around as long as you allow it. godloveya.
2006-10-01 23:21:05 · answer #4 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my dear
am in the same situation. i know am supposed to leave him but i have not yet, i have decided to pull off slowly by slowly, when i eventually leave the pain wont be too much.dear we should act fast coz someone cheating on u dosent deserve u.
make ua self as happy and busy as possible, be nice to ua self . fresh hair do , holiday, n eventually u will even wonder what u were doing. wish u all the best honey
2006-10-02 00:31:45 · answer #5 · answered by moori3100 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why are you asking all these questions when you already know the answer LEAVE unless you like being treated like this...are you trying to make it work...why? when he shows no respect for you...the treament is just going to get alot worse can't you see he's trying to push you away on purpose...well he wouldnt have to try pushing me away cause i would already be gone...you need to show him that you are a woman a self respect and that you deserve much better....LEAVE do not get in contact with him treat him as if he doesnt exist....cause he's doing the same to you...and when your gone out of his life we'll see how he like them apples...YOU NEVER MISS WHAT YOU GOT TIL IT'S GONE...if you have any respect for yourself you would leave...hope you make the right decision.
2006-10-01 23:09:42 · answer #6 · answered by tanya m 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kick his a-s-s to the curb. Why are you still there? He is making a fool of you!!! NO love NO respect. Have PRIDE in your self!!!! Don't let a man do you this way then just sit back and take it!!!
2006-10-01 22:59:24 · answer #7 · answered by Sarcastic Sid 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The light is green and your still standing! Time to move away girl!
2006-10-01 23:03:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start from leaving him and time will help you. You shouldn't care with a guy like that, he totally doesn't deserve someone like you.
2006-10-01 22:59:17 · answer #9 · answered by Wanlaya 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its up to you , you should never take advice on something like relationships, experience doesnt work , because its almost never the same , but i personally would have said my good bye's and started looking else where
2006-10-01 22:58:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋