i am a 17 year old girl and i have a bestfriend who is gay and i love him soo much i would do anything for him but resently he has been avoiding me and when we do hangout he is very affectionate and he holds my hands and cuddles with me and he tells me really sweet things. he is not acting quite as gay as he used to be(he still acts pretty gay) and he has evn been telling other people that we r dating and he gets super jealous when ever i even TALK to othe men. idk what to do i have already tried talking to him but he avoids the question and i dont want to push..............
whats wrong with him?
2006-10-01 22:40:04 · 8 answers · asked by GONE 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
i dont have feeling for him other than friendship let me make that clean i am worried about him! i know he is gay so i am jusy worried he will try something stupid because he is so lonely
2006-10-01 22:52:13 · update #1
yes
2006-10-01 22:44:57 · answer #1 · answered by boiling boy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, no offense, but I think you're having delusions of grandeur. A gay man is a gay man. They're only interested in having romantic relationships with other men. Sure, gay men can be a girl's best friend! They understand the importance of cuddling, they're fun to shop with, they even hug and scream to greet you if you've been away for a while! However, if you've never come in contact with a gay man before, you may interpret this as the greatest man you'll ever get involved with because he KNOWS you and what you want.
Honestly, the only gay PEOPLE that get interested in girls are lesbians. You may have a bisexual on your hands, but that's a little too optimistic, I think.
And, btw, Miss "Respected One", there have been findings of NATURALLY GAY animals. You should really open your eyes more and get those glasses fixed.
2006-10-01 22:47:16 · answer #2 · answered by Danielle 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he's as young as you (early adult in the late teens to early 20's), then he may be considering experimentation, as many 'straight' people do at that time of life as well. I'd say, don't push, be his friend, stay open, and see where it goes. If he wants to try anything more than friends with you, you'd have to wait until he initiates.
2006-10-01 22:49:58 · answer #3 · answered by Arlene06 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
gay dates men woman based on expieriences
2006-10-01 23:08:21 · answer #4 · answered by ~electra~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He could be bisexual in that case you are the one that will have to decide if the relationship is right for you.
2006-10-01 22:51:56 · answer #5 · answered by Doep 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its only natural to love the opposite sex I think
2006-10-01 22:45:06 · answer #6 · answered by Photographer 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
you need to make enough money for you to get a sex change. make sure to get the biggest and thickest phallus that they can make. then maybe hell think again.
2006-10-01 22:45:06 · answer #7 · answered by Mike 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
only gay women
2006-10-01 22:42:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋