2006-10-01 22:25:11 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Tell them and also that you need there loving support and understanding of your difficult situation. good luck
2006-10-01 22:27:09 · answer #1 · answered by Cdn_Superdave 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What you do is up to you. There are options. You could tell your parents and see what they think. That is, of course, depending on how well you and your parents get along and whether they are reasonable people.
You could go to a local hospital/clinic and explain your situation, have the baby in a safe situation and adopt it out to a stable family.
As long as you do something to take care of the baby - whether that means having it and raising it yourself or having it and giving it up, that's up to you. You've already shown remarkable courage and responsibility by choosing to carry the baby to term instead of trying an abortion.
Good luck to you and your baby.
2006-10-02 05:30:40 · answer #2 · answered by shatterbrat 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are obviously very young and so I sympathise with you. Does the father know yet? You are going to have to tell your parents and go to be checked by a doctor as soon as possible. If the father is of any kind of good character he will support you and stand by you when you tell your parents. If not get a friend for support and face up to it. It will not be as bad as you imagine and you will need your parents to deal with their initial shock and get over it. Imagine how much worse it would be not telling them at all and being on your own when your baby arrives. This would be detrimental for your babys and your own health. Best wishes, I hope it works out for you.
2006-10-02 05:35:53 · answer #3 · answered by rondavous 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, You really need to tell your parents. Are you seeing an o.b.? You are in your third trimester now you can have that baby any time. I had my baby at 32 weeks. I am grown but my parents were the first to know. You need to think about what is best for you and that baby. Good Luck. Take care of the baby
2006-10-02 05:45:51 · answer #4 · answered by meme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi JAMES-ANN,
You should sit your parents down & tell them because at some point in time they will surely know if they don't already. Besides you should be getting prenatal care for you and baby. Because most parents are there to help. Besides what's the worst thing that could happen? Tell them and get it off your chest. Good luck and have a good day!
2006-10-02 05:37:53 · answer #5 · answered by dousmokedoobies69 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should inform your family. i've been in your situation 6 years ago. i decided not to tell but in the end i inform my sister. my sister is the one who inform my parents. if u r afraid to inform your parents directly, find someone tat u r close example ur siblings. dun worry they wont kill u the most they will only scold u. who is too cruel to beat up a 7 month pregnant women. Trust me u should inform them, i've been in ur situation b4. everythin will go smoothly. and i believe they will by ur side till the day you give birth... god bless u..........
2006-10-03 01:10:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
didn't you just post a question about your suicidal bf? and how can your parents not know you're 7 months pregnant? your tummy should be huge by now. if you live away from them, i suggest the best thing to do is tell them.
2006-10-02 05:27:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
You need to sit your parents down and tell them. I can only hope you have been getting medical care.. because to do without it is child neglect and in some places is grounds for child removal if your baby is born with a totally treatable condition that prenatal care could have prevented.
2006-10-02 05:28:45 · answer #8 · answered by waiting4myredemption 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you need to tell them? what are your plans? because your parents will want to know ecspecailly if you are still in high school and you will need help taking care of of the baby
2006-10-02 05:57:07 · answer #9 · answered by Dawn S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats a tough one, but the best thing to do would be to tell your parents. If you don't feel you can do that you should go somewher like planned parenthood and ask for advice.
2006-10-02 05:29:08 · answer #10 · answered by jazzyrhythms 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, for one thing I would suggest telling them after all they WILL be grandparents in a matter of a couple of months, and if you are still living at home, chances are they will be picking up the hospital bill.Yup that's what I would do.I would tell them.
2006-10-02 05:28:51 · answer #11 · answered by theradicalwomen 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋